my bestfriend and her b/f have been dating for almost a year. i have been friends w/ than both since the 6th grade. her b/f and i are really good friends he tells me everything i use to like him as just a friend but ever since he and i started hanging out more i see myself falling for him and sometimes it feels like he likes me to. i feel so guilty. please help me what do i do
2006-11-22 18:35:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you value and want to continue your relationship with your girlfriend, you better shift your focus on another guy. I hope that you can grasp that the notion of "falling in love" comes from the things we say to ourselves about another person and what we perceive about someone else (either imagined or real). You are really in control of it. If you have focused on this guy and you have, at present, no other in your life, it is easy to understand how it can happen, especially if you are a person who begins an intimate relationship from a friendship (It is the best situation.). Trust in the fact that for every person there is more than one individual who is potentially suited for you.
Your feelings of guilt is an internal sign to you that you should not pursue taking this relationship to a different level. Each of us lives within our own skin; I would advise you to take a path of behavior that you will feel comfortable with yourself.
Ultimately, the bottom line is that if the relationship develops and becomes so powerful between the two of you, no one or nothing will be able to stop the two of you getting together. If not now, then later down the road.
2006-11-22 19:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by Lucid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this girl is a good friend to you, then definitely the guy is off limits. This will severely ruin your friendship with her. If you don't really care about her then I say go for it. I did the same thing and that girl and i never speak.
2006-11-22 18:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friendship is more important than a "could-be" romance. Cherish your friend as real friends are hard to find and you keep them longer whereas guys come and go.
2006-11-22 19:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel guilty, you should stop for the sake of your friend and her relationship. If you dont want to stop, I am sure, you will not stop at our advise.
2006-11-22 18:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do u love ur friend?? i think this is a bad situation to be in gil, but is he worth ruining ur friend ship ?
2006-11-22 19:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by dana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say 2 to ur friend we are friends that's all
2006-11-22 18:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mahesh - 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of him as a brother...
Incest is by far the most disgusting type of sex out there..eww...LOL
2006-11-22 18:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it!...my best friends b/f is the best looking guy i know but he's stricktly off limits and so are my b/f's to her
2006-11-22 18:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not disappoint your friend.
2006-11-22 18:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋