2006-11-22 17:23:55 · 16 answers · asked by matt_pietras_fredmeyer 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
do not sign the Birth certificate untill you have a DNA test if the baby is your pay child support and be a father. you don't have to be with her to be a good dad
2006-11-22 17:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Big Daddy R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive, but ask for a DNA test to be totally sure.
Call 1-800-R-U-MYKID, or the Maury show. And just so everyone knows, that is a real phone number for a DNA and Paternity testing company. I laugh at the bilboard every time I see it.
And if the test comes back and says that you are the father, be prepared to be there for the baby and help out. If it turns out to not be your baby, you can still be supportive to your ex, but if the relationship ended badly and you don't want to be friends or anything, step aside gracefully. Don't be nasty and call her a slut or whatever.
2006-11-23 01:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by Queen Queso 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a DNA test then take responsibility for your actions. Im pregnant with my ex's baby and we have one already together and he is a great father. You can still be a dad and not be with the girl. If its yours let it know ur it's daddy!
2006-11-23 01:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by Larissa Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a paternity test first of all to see if you are the father, and if you are then you be a man and step in and take care of the child. Always try your best to be in the child's life because every child needs their father in their lives to help raise them, give them advice, direct them, love them, play with them, and just simply being able to interact with them.
Good luck.
2006-11-23 01:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the state's laws that you live in, you can file a petition in civil court or family court for a paternity test. there are usually laws in place to help you pay for it if that is a problem. Also, there are paternity registries in some states that you have to sign in order to have any rights. Check it out with a free legal advise organization to determine the law and your rights.
2006-11-23 01:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by lisa_6441 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it proubley scary but one night of sweet love or a booty call can make a lill angel.do the right thing get dna testing and then do your best. your that baby daddy for 18 years and if it isnt then where your rain coat till your ready. good luck.
2006-11-23 01:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by cheta_lindseygarza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a DNA test to find out for sure and if you are help raise the child and support her you can be a part of your child's life even if you don't want to be with the mother any longer good luck
2006-11-23 01:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DNa Test
2006-11-23 01:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a paternity test you could go for custody if you want. But take responsibility!
2006-11-23 01:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First see if the baby is yours then if it is then be there for her and the baby don't run away from your responsibility.
2006-11-23 01:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by destanee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋