I take it this person has not physically hurt you or anything like that, because if they did, then it's pretty clear. I take it they are doing passive aggressive things like, give brief replies when you say something to them, or make eye contact only briefly, maybe even make rude comments at your expense. In this case simply ask "are you mad at me for some reason? And if so what? If not, why have you been acting so ___fill in the blank____-
They'll either say no or yes. If they say 'yes', they probably mean it, but if they say 'no', it's more about how they said it.
So you ask an additional, something like "The way you've been acting, and even the way you replied indicates you are. If you don't tell me what's really going on, how can I fix the problem? If you're angry you should be man/woman enough to say so and why."
Not everyone can articulate their thoughts and feelings as easily as others, so a whole host of problems may be going on with this person that may or may not have anything to do with you.
2006-11-22 17:11:51
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answered by Thinkithtrough 3
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When I get mad my tone of voice tends to be snappish.
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answered by ? 1
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u just gave yourself one example she is mad at u for 1 strange reason that u dont know!
2006-11-22 18:01:42
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answered by Anonymous
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they act differently than they did before, be it talking less, or avoiding you, or making rude comments, etc etc.
2006-11-22 17:00:25
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answered by aero 2
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when sumbody ignores u that's the general hint
2006-11-22 17:37:13
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answered by angelslayer09 1
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They shout at you ! They hit you !They give you the cold treatment !
2006-11-22 17:01:26
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answered by Anonymous
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how that someone talk and acts with u..
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2006-11-22 16:58:12
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answered by c g 1
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they ignore you or avoid eye contact
2006-11-22 16:58:18
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answered by Mel 4
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Haha...They'll be laughing and smiling...NOT jk
2006-11-22 16:59:33
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answered by $&$& 2
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they arent nice
2006-11-22 16:58:44
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answered by vicki f 2
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