hi.
I don't know why I have bad luck with people
I think I'm a good person so why do I get treated
so bad.
2006-11-22 16:55:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Uh, you should be yourself and be more open. Don't ever try to look good. People will think that you're fake. You just pretend to be kind. Maybe it's the problem...
2006-11-22 18:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Haku_Chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laura,
You are trying too hard. People sense when someone feels inferior and they take advantage of what is kindness, but they see it as being weak.
Be yourself, any friend worth having just happens because you share interests and u realize that it would be fun to hang around with each other.
If you are not in any clubs, join some you will meet all kinds of new people, good luck
2006-11-23 01:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by jawtar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,try to open up to people a little more. If you don't talk much,others could see that as you not being friendly toward them,or maybe others don't know how to approach you if you act introverted.You should smile a lot and say Hello as often as you can to people even if you don't know them.Good Luck,I'm sure you will do well with people!!!
2006-11-23 01:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by spicy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are to nice and you surround yourself with not so nice people that take advantage of you. Some time we do have to put our foot down and tell our friends enough is enough I will not allow you to treat me this way any longer.Just tell yourself today I become a stronger person .
2006-11-23 01:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c the people that treat you bad are just jealous b/c your way prettier than them! Dont let people like them put you down b/c thats not how it should be
Friends
2006-11-23 09:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by ~PRINCESS~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they dont like u so they will treat u bad at my old school they were like that well i met a good friend that used to be mean to me so now we r good friends and if they r still mean to u leave and if it dont work then go to a older person then u and they might give u better advise
2006-11-23 01:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by <--(**V**)--> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i can relate. maybe it's because you seem slightly shy or because you don't display a lot of confidence. people take advantage of both. either that or it could be the opposite, perhaps you seem snotty. try to carry yourself with grace, and distribute positive looks. don't be quick to belittle yourself in any verbal or nonverbal way. HTH :)
2006-11-23 00:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by sugarghost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want answers explain the situation in a bit more details like wot badluck follows u and wot bad things they do to u?
2006-11-23 01:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you choose that person which are unable to understood you.So charce that kind of person who are ready to chare with u in all times.
If u trust me then I m ready to chare with u as your good
friend
2006-11-23 01:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by skdpnkr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Laura ..... maybe you're just missunderstood? .... until you start to talk to me I can't be sure what type of person you are .... My messenger is open if you wanna drop me a line :)
2006-11-23 00:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋