I just feel like no one really wants to listen to my problems or cares about them so I don't talk to anyone about them. I can't trust anyone anymore anyway. With having no true friends and no one to talk to about my problems I just feel like I'm keeping everything inside of me and I know that isn't the right thing to do. Is there something I'm doing wrong that I don't have any true friends or something?
2006-11-22 16:48:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well nowadays it is diffcult to find true friends as the society is progressing and a lot of times we have many friends but the sad thing when we have trouble how many of them will really standby us and give us a helping hand.
I don't really know if you have done anything wrong but I believe it is more of progressing in the society that resulted in such situation. A lot of times our friends may just backstabbed us to gain some personal benefits. This is very common nowadays unlike the kampong days where everybody look after each other.
I believe you are not alone but it takes time for you to find your true friends
2006-11-23 02:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is try and be a friend to as many people that you know. If your a good friend, you should find that someone is a good friend back. If you keep everything to yourself it will only get you sick inside. It's hard to make new friends and right away start telling them about your problems. Do you have any friends that you've know for some time that you can talk to or at least try to talk to? If all else fails you can always see a counselor.
2006-11-22 16:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by Champ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing your age, can provide different answers. Finding a true friend is way difficult. Finding a friend will happen, and usually is mutual. Believe me, here are many out there who are looking for friends. I can never have enough. Don't look. Best Friends take a long time to develop, and taking the leap of faith and trust a little more often may just produce that friend. I hope it helps. Just remember, you have to be your own friend first.
2006-11-22 16:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to share all your pain with people. Talk to a counselor instead. Friendships are a place to share happiness. With time, you can gain friends who might want to listen to your problems. But think about it, if you were happy, would you like a friend telling you about all of their problems day in and day out. You would avoid this person if you wanted to be happy. Try writing in a journal on one half the page and leave the other half of the page for answers to yourself. give yourself good answers like "you did the right thing" and avoid saying stuff like " you are such an idiot". When you are fortunate to have the company of others, try to be upbeat and happy. Read books on conversation skills and making friends. Focus on the positives in your life. Life is too short to spend feeling sad, lonely, empty, and filled with self-pity. Don't be afraid to seek out a counselor, if you think you are having problems with depression or stress. Most of all, good luck.
2006-11-22 17:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by oh really 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, She's outa here. Apparently she has no time for you. If you find yourself doing all the work to keep the friendship going, then it's WAY past time to let her go. If you really don't know what to do, then tell her how you feel. Make HER choose. I'm going to have to follow my own advice very soon because I have an identical situation, So I know what you are talking about. Good Luck.
2016-03-29 06:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there isn't nothing you are doing wrong. The older i get, the less friends i have! Good friendship is hard to find, so is trust, i rather be alone and happy then be sick with someone else!!! Let god be your friend or your family. be your own best friend....you will appreciate it the older you get! i had to get rid of friends that i was Friends with since i was a baby!!! that's life...
2006-11-22 16:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by LovelyMe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In our lifetime you can count on your fingers the true best friends we can have..Sometimes our spouses and sisters become our best friends. But for me my true friends are all women and I can call them up anytime of the day. They are always available for me and vice versa.We treat each other with love and respect all the time.Once you recognize your best friend keep her by all means. It is so rare nowadays to find true friendship.
2006-11-22 16:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here, most (if not all) of my friends seem to be just friends you go out with to have a good time and hang out etc. But when it comes to friends that I can express my feelings and thoughts to- I don't think there is one.
2006-11-24 12:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by _______ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its pretty much the same situation for me. People either pretend to listen or they butt in and tell me their side of their 'problems' instead. Totally pissed.
2006-11-24 03:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by Madish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i know exacly how u feel! pretty much nobody likes me in skool i don't know wut i'm doing wrong but i'm shy and a reject! always have been lol i know i'm not sounding sad but i'm really not happy about it i'm just tring to sound bitter
2006-11-22 17:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by mamama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋