Are there any polygamist here????

Question

Can you tell me what it is like. And haw do you cope with the problems of multiple spouses. Can be brief, if wanted.

Answer 1

Me! Me! Oh what can I tell you. It is hard. It requires a lot of sacrifice and love, and in my case, many lonely nights. I sleep on the couch most nights, my personal choice, but I feel I have to to keep things fair. My wives don't get along, which makes things much more difficult. Actually it is just one of them that causes the most suffering. The laws don't help, I can only put one on my health insurance and car insurance. So I have to foot the entire bill for the other. They are both stay at home moms, so I work a second job to handle it. It's tiring though. If they both had good attitudes, how much nicer it would be for everyone, but that's not the case. I will leave one soon, and pay a lot of child support, but at least I can free her up and hope that someday she is happy, but I doubt it. I do everything a man can do, happiness is a personal choice and it is not her choice, so it doesn't really matter. So, the problems require a lot of love and incredible patience and self sacrafice. That's about it.

Answer 2

There was a polygamist cult in Utah. The leader dude got arrested for making 13 year old girls marry 40 year old men.

Answer 3

not really, but wouldn't mind. I just think if they're taking another partner, it would have to be a mutual decision. you can't bring in someone that would create tension and resentment. It is a delicate situation but i think with the right peope, it could work wonderfully.

Answer 4

No but I've heard them before and respect them and believe the law is bad and needs to be changed .

Answer 5

no