Everyday this girl I walk with smiles and waves at me (not from far away) and I wave back, but my expression is blank. We get along just fine, but how do u think she interprets that blank expression? (I used to smile when I said hi to her, but now I hardly do)
BTW some guy is always messing around with her like right in front of me and she has a man (not me. I tried to get with her, before I found out she had a bf, so we're just friends. I know she wasnt just making that up) Thats basically the reason why I dont really smile when I say hi to her anymore and when we talk I appear to myself as depressed. And my question still remains "How do u think she interprets that blank expression?"
2006-11-22 16:30:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
DO U THINK I CAN STILL MAKE UP FOR THE DAMAGE I'VE DONE? (I WONT SEE HER TIL MONDAY)
2006-11-22 16:34:37 · update #1
I'M NOT TRYING TO MAKE MYSELF APPEAR DEPRESSED.
2006-11-22 16:41:56 · update #2
That you're unhappy and need to be waved to more.
2006-11-22 16:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by Meeshie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off man girls love it when a guy smiles. Try to have that smile of your planning something devious. Or your planning on taking over the world.
Second if you want her start talking to her. It may take some time. Try and keep it so you keep on asking her questions so she is talking for the most part. Let her ask to but try and keep it 25% you 75% her. When you talk. Seem interested in. Sometimes the ignoring for a couple of days or so can allow you to know how she feels. But don't hoop on quick. Get back into her slowly. If you get digits don't call her for min of 3 days.
2006-11-22 16:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Frak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may read too much into it. Have you ever thought that maybe she is just being friendly. I smile and wave to people all the time. It isn't really flirting, just being nice. I enjoyed watching people smile and if I had something to do with it then so much the better.
2006-11-22 16:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in "blank expressions." Your body language says something. It's not blank. She may think you're depressed if that's the goal you're going for. But if you're interested in her, why would you want her to think that? Try acting uh...excited to talk to her or something the next time she says hi.
2006-11-22 16:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she will think that you're mad at her when you knew she had a bf.. so she'll most probably avoid you too if actions are not taken quick..well how to make up for her?..try talking back to her and cheer her up..create stories that you're very stressed for certain issues for the past weeks causing you to feel down (well it is bad to lie, but this is called good intention lying)... when she's ok with that try being close to her...not too close..just close...you must be able to give her the feeling that you're the one that she can count on at anytime..then you might have a chance to win her back..but keep it slow..you wouldn't wanna scare of a girl...
2006-11-22 16:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by tata bear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
blank expression? she's probably not paying you any mind at all. reverse psychology does not work. girls want someone that has something to offer. it has to be something about you that attracts you to her. trust me, it has nothing to do with your pockets, either, because money comes and money goes. it's obvious you're still interested. continue to be the gentleman that you are and you just might grow on her.
2006-11-22 16:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by cutesensiblechic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would think that you were an absolute bummer. If anything you should be really really happy and not seem interested in her and then she'll give you more attention. Girls always want what they can't have. If you're always around and look depressed....who would want to hang around with you?
2006-11-22 16:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your blank expression would say to me "I'm only speaking to you because I don't want to be rude, but I'm certainly not interested in you as a person".
2006-11-22 16:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disinterest. Think of how you would react if it was an elderly woman walking by. Wouldn't you smile? Why wouldn't you smile at this girl? Just be friendly!
2006-11-22 16:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by Smart Kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she get a man after or before the staring thing? if it was after she might be pulling a hard-to-get-no-i-don't-like-you-thing maybe she's afraid of giving you her heart and you not feeling the same i mean this happened to me last year and now i find out he did like me and i really regret not telling him.
2006-11-22 16:55:17 · answer #10 · answered by toohot4uhotchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋