I like this boy but he doesn't even know me so it's really hard to get him to know me because i am the kind of girl who's shy. I can't tell him I like him. I don't know what to do?
2006-11-22 14:25:34 · 13 answers · asked by michelle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you're a shy person try to make eye contact with him. I was shy once too. When y'all make good eye contact make sure to smile at him. Try to get one of your friends to talk to him. Girl if he doesn't know you exist, well make him know you exist.
2006-11-25 11:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by shanitrab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time you see him smile and try to say hi, even if you reddish, actually it could be better if he sees you reddish, then he will know for sure that you are crazy about him!! Maybe if he isnt very shy, he will get close to you for chatting.
Then if you can do him talk to you, you shouldnt keep showing him that you're too shy, try the "confidence tactic", just act secure in front of him, talk with confidence 'cause he wont eat you girl, ok? Laugh, smile, all that.
Oh, and of course, try to reinforce your looks too, that's important. But not so much as all the above, attitude and self-confidence are vital!!!
Good Luck, and dont worry, you'll get that boy!!!!
2006-11-22 22:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Abbey Road 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how do you know him if he doesnt know you? Thats something you should of said cuz I am confused about that, but anyways you should kind of watch, NOT spy, but observe the things that he does that maybe you like to do. Then kind of begin talking to him randomly about it. But dont act like a stalker and if you cant get up the courage to go talk to the guy then it's gunna be difficult, but dont let your shyness get the best of you because you might miss out on things.=)
2006-11-22 22:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by ~*mwah*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say hi. You can even travel out of town to cairns or some big city and go to a big party where o one knows you. That way you can get some Practice in!!!
2006-11-22 22:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by gottaluvme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to make gestures that show that you are interested to talk to him. Like accuidentally running into him for every excuse and try not to make it too obvious because you might scare him away...Try to make use of every chance just to have a chat with him or talk to him and once he knows your intentions, the rest they say is history.....So go for it girl but dont make it too fast or you might be hard on him.....
2006-11-22 22:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by compu-illiterate~Yeah tats me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG u remind me of me like a while ago okay so just have one of ur girlfriends who knows him (if there are any) hang out with u and b like hey we should go to a movie with him or something and a group of people so ur not just with him and pressured or whatever trust me having friends around helps just b urself but a really sexy version lol and HAVE FUN WITH IT!!! dont make it happen just let it happen! good luck!
2006-11-22 22:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.... join a chat site, or a dating site, so you can get a bit of practice emailing, and talking with guy's..... Eventually you will begin to become comfortable with it, then practice further on boy's you dont really like, just as a friend, until finally, you'll become good enough at it, to be ready to chat with your crush.... A bit of practice, here and there, and you'll be on your way in no time!...
2006-11-22 22:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i can answer your question as i have experience...DONT go saying hi to him everday and just walk off its NO USE!!!!!i know as i used to have a gal who i think likes me and she says hi everytime we meet and i just say hi back and tats all that happens....its just so akward!!!!!WHY???because we have nothing to talk about...we dont even know each other...my suggestion is to get to know this boy through a group...like do you have any friends who knows him...if they do go out with him then join them...being in a group relaxes the tension and you could then talk to him and make friends easily...Den after that you would have more topics to talk about as you know him better and he will get your message if you keep showing interest in him....good luck....
2006-11-22 22:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep saying hi to him everyday and he will start talking to you. Hun, if you wanna flirt you cant be shy.
2006-11-22 22:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by ♥worship♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and talk to him. Smile and be nice, it will come naturally from there...just make sure you don't act like someone you are not, you want him to like you for you.
2006-11-22 22:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by pelenpuppy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋