I am going through a breakup..Its 2 weeks since he broke up with me...All i do is think of him..Even when i go out hes on my mind...I feel so hurt and down....What can i do to stop obsessing over him....My mind cant take it anymore
2006-11-22 14:24:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
grow up............everyone deserves to be happy and maybe it's fate that you are not with him now and it is for the better. Better for him and better for you. Would you want to be strapped to him when REAL love comes around? No, cause then you'd have to cheat to get what should be meant for you. Enjoy the moment.....it might not be the end of the world as you see it.
2006-11-22 14:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you have to give yourself time to heal. You're thinking about him,because you still love him. The best thing to do is to continue to go out with your friends and busy yourself with a project or work. Keep yourself busy enough as to not leave any room in your mind to think about him. Try going to church listening to the pastor can help set things straight in your mind. If you have a best friend cry on her shoulder a lot. If you have anything that belongs to him get rid of it. Get a box put all the things you shared with him in it and store it away. Doing this will act as a closer to a chapter in your life and help you move on. But whatever you do, don't date anyone. You're not ready for that and you wouldn't be fair to that person. In short enjoy being single for awhile. Do all the things you wanted to do that being with him would not allow or he didn't want to do. Make plans to take a vacation, weather its a 3 day weekend or a week. Just do it make it a goal to get away with a bunch of your girlfriends. You know like you use to do, before you got with him. Make up for lost time. I hope this helps you.
2006-11-22 22:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are.There's only one good thing I can think of and that's pray about it. The Lord is the only one that can give you the answer if you're willing to listen. He doesn't want his children to be miserable. Try it you might like it.
2006-11-22 22:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
***** get your *** over it and find a new men **** any body could tell your as that it takes a well to get your mind off of things like that if u have any question email me at vonnierennebridges@yahoo.com
2006-11-22 22:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by new new 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get a new man and get into bed, someone new is the best way to rid yourself of your old boyfriend. maybe getting into bed is a bit extreme, but a least start dating asap!
2006-11-22 22:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to move and think positive or you will lose your mind. find things to do that are all about you and force your self to put him out your mind
2006-11-22 22:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell your self, do i went to be this way or do i went happyness, look at the bright side he brook up with you it's his lost.
2006-11-22 22:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with another guy.
2006-11-22 22:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋