old and I wash it my self in side and out and well my husband was complaining that the car needed washed,so I went to our local car wash and washed it but when I came home and put in the garage I noticed that there was scratches on it from trhe brush at the car wash and I know my Husband is going to scream and cuss at me when he sees it,What would your reaction be if this happend with your wife? Honest anwsers only please.p.s. it is my car and I do help pay for it and I do work full time.
2006-11-22 13:57:36 · 16 answers · asked by Dew 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He should be washing your car. I keep the cars clean, she keeps the clothes clean
2006-11-22 14:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would probably say that is this is the reason that I do not take the car to the automatic car wash because of the brush marks.
If I was your husband I would probably say why don't we wash the cars together, or we can take them to have them detailed inside and out without the car wash with brushes.
He has no reason to cuss you since you are the one that is making payments, and working for it.
Happy Thanksgiving
2006-11-22 14:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if it's your car and you help pay for it he shouldn't be any more angry than you....if it was my wife, I wouldn't yell or scream but I would suggest not going to that car wash again. I go to the self service washes, I've had no probs with that.
2006-11-22 14:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be held accountable for putting your car into a "car wash". Get ahold of your insurance rep. That's what they are for! Hopefully they will sue the car wash for damages.
2006-11-22 14:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me and my wife not much to say.All I said dont take back to the car wash, wash your car at home all car wash places are bad.A bucket and rag and water hose works great.
2006-11-22 14:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are not a problem they can be fixed with a hand wax application just get it detailed or use a spray and wax after you have washed the car if anything he should be mad at the car wash not you ,, Good Luck !
2006-11-22 14:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband yells and screams at you, give him something to scream about...take the car and go wreck it! He has no right to yell at you about anything, let alone some scratches on a car. You, my dear, sound as if you are in an abusive relationship. Take control now or it will get worse.
2006-11-22 14:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
frankly, i'll be pissed immediatly after seeing my car in this state, but when i find out that it is the car wash, i'll drive to the car wash immediatly, vent my anger on them and demand compensation and payment for the car's paint job, tell my wife never to allow such idiots to wash our car again and forget about the matter after the car's fixed.
try telling your husband tactfully, if he finds out on his own, he might be more pissed than if you told him
2006-11-22 14:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by some guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm assuming you have a dark colored car?
i wouldn't worry, he should know good buff and wax will get the swirl marks out (i work at a dealership)...next time, use the brushless wash...or a wash mitt made of soft material...
good luck^^
2006-11-22 14:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by mr E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The car wash is insured for this. Ask for their insurance carrier, by law they have to provide the info to you.
As for your husband, see if you can trade him in on a newer model.
2006-11-22 14:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by johngolfs2002 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋