How do you stop worrying about what people think about you?

Question

I think I'm worrying too much. How can I get over it?

Answer 1

by being confident in what you say and do.there will always be people who think you are the best or the worst it,s life.

Answer 2

This is a wonderful question and I have this problem too. Too bad I don't know the answer, but I want to give you the lyrics to this song because I think it helps somehow.

"The one and only"
(Nik Kershaw)

I am the one and only
Oh yeah

Call me
Call me by my name or
Call me by number
You put me through it
I'll still be doing it the way I do it
And yet you try to make me forget
Who I really am
Don't tell me I know best
I'm not the same as all the rest

I am the one and only
Nobody I'd rather be
I am the one and only
You can't take that away from me

I've been a player in the crowd scene
A flicker on the big screen
My soul embraces
One more in a million faces
High hopes and aspirations ideas
Above my station maybe
But all this time I've tried
To walk with dignity and pride

I am the one and only
Nobody I'd rather be
I am the one and only
You can't take that away from me

I can't wear this uniform
Without some compromises
Because you'll find out that we come
In different shapes and sizes
No one can be myself like I can
For this job I'm the best man
And while this may be true
You are the one and only you

I am the one and only
Nobody I'd rather be
I am the one and only
You can't take that away from me

I am the one and only I am the one and only
Nobody I'd rather be
I am the one and only The one and only
You can't take that away from me

Answer 3

If you are worrying about what a particular person thinks of you, think to yourself: Is this person going to be in my life in 10 years? 20 years? No. So just be whoever you are most comfortable with, YOURSELF, stand up for what you believe in, wear what YOU think is hot ,and if they don't like it, their loss. Everyone is individual and unique, and if you are worrying about what someone thinks about you, then they aren't even worth thinking about. Because if they are a true friend they won't care how you dress or what people you hang out with, they will always be there for you and those are the people that matter.

Answer 4

I'm Like that. but the problem is I'm empethetic (sense what people are feeling and thinking by their face) so everytime i walk down the street I just put a barrier there so their thoughts don't reach me. What you can do is instead of worrying what they are thinking watch what you are doing. Walking down the street worrying what people are thinking in the end you will tense up and make you do something(like running into a pole) that they WILL judge you about.

Answer 5

Look at what is best for you......Is listening to these people best for you, or is it just stressful for you? This is your answer. You must seek this worry free, laid back attitude from within your own heart. Laugh when they say mean things, and remind yourself that you are worth-full, not worthless. And remember that they are only judging you of your qualities that you do not have (or the bad ones that you do have) only to take the good ones that you have from you. Listen to YOUR heart and just wake up with the attitude that "I no longer care what people think about me!" It is all a belief, that is it........

Answer 6

ok to become fine with people give ur self a good slap across the face two if needed then say to whoever says crap behind ill be the higher of the two evils if u dont get out of my way ill just say i have friends that may be bigger than u or learn to laugh about ot like me

Answer 7

You realize that your special n your own way and what people think of you shouldn't allow you to change who you are. If they don't like you then find people that do cuz theres always going to be people that do like you for who you and the people that don't shouldnt be worth your time

Answer 8

Just stand up for yourself. There will ALWAYS be people that disapprove of what you do, what you wear, who you are with...You have to trust and have faith in yourself, and that will make you so much more attractive to other people.

Answer 9

you start to worried what you think about your self.

Answer 10

Let me know when u find out?