2006-11-22 13:54:43 · 10 answers · asked by msoto37 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Having a similar situation in the past I found out that the only way to deal with a mother-in-law situation was to get in her face and let her know that she was entitled to her opinion of me, of how I was raising my kids, and living my life.
She wasn't real thrilled about what I said, especially when I informed her my daughters would not turn out to be real bitches like she was. Guess what, from the time I stood to her she never again ran her mouth in front of me, my wife, or my kids.
I also informed her that the rest of the family was tired of hearing her shrill tirades, ranting, and raving. I told her that we could agree to disagree, but that I really didn't give a sh*t what she thought about me. My house, my kids, and my life were just that, mine.
My father-in-law told me he had wanted to say those things to her for years, the gutless wonder.
2006-11-22 14:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree either tell her to take your side and defend the man she married or get out and find someone who truly cares for you not to let that happen mother-in-laws need to keep their distance and mind their own business
2006-11-22 14:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by Betty B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid the woman as much as u can, it's never easy to have a mother inlaw who has a low opinion of u. not much u can do if u want to keep your family together. mother in law's can make or break a marriage according to the advice they give .
2006-11-22 15:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is is as quickly as lower back laptop going too some distance. mum and dad or those witnessing vandalism or in spite of can say and gain this little. mum and dad can not smack a newborn so i think of it definitely starts off from the pram that childrens are turning out to be 'away with homicide'. don't get me incorrect i don't think of toddlers ought to be abused in any way and definitely some toddlers can take a telling besides the undeniable fact that, as a determine of grown up toddlers in case you get an ungainly newborn you get an ungainly newborn and all the naughty steps and reasoning only would not artwork. not in all circumstances yet in many, many circumstances the newborn is now ruling the mum and dad so what hazard does a spoiled newborn have because it gets older getting used to all going the way he/she needs it? One occasion exchange into final 300 and sixty 5 days. there's a small park in front of my living house and a father took his 3 toddlers down and alter into joined by utilising yet another dad and finally approximately 14 neighbouring toddlers. i assumed this exchange into certainly extreme-high quality to confirm the dad's out with the toddlers enjoying a ball activity on a summer season night. next issues the youngest of one of the dad's 3 toddlers took a tantrum as something wasn't going the newborn's way. the newborn needed to return to the living house. Now approximately 20 - 30 strolling steps away exchange into the opened gate of the park. the newborn refused to bypass out the gate and what did the daddy do? He definitely broke the chestnut fencing to make an area for the newborn to bypass with the aid of. Please tell me what variety of occasion is this? it relatively is not something yet sheer vandilism. i could not stand and watch this and asked the daddy what he exchange into thinking of. we are speaking right here of a properly knowledgeable expert individual. He somewhat replied me, ensured the newborn exchange into for the time of the area he had made and went lower back to enjoying the ball activity. you notice they don't basically stick up for undesirable young toddlers besides the undeniable fact that it may start up with youthful toddlers. mum and dad provide in to their toddlers and it starts off the ball rolling. by utilising the time those toddlers are young toddlers they think of they could behave as they desire and haven't any appreciate for the valuables of others and extremely they don't be attentive to to any extent further valuable simply by fact as I suggested on the beginning up, not all yet many 'harm out with homicide' on condition that babes.
2016-10-12 22:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your wife that because of her allowing your mother-in-law to treat you so badly that you will not see her mother any more. Your wife has to see her on her own time.
2006-11-22 14:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 years worth?????? And you're wife put's up with it????
Go out and a find a real woman next time.
2006-11-22 13:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by johngolfs2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them both they were made for eachother, and you were not...leave, fool. I wouldn't put up with a wife who did not take my side..period. What are you waiting for?
2006-11-22 13:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave. spouse should take you over mom. is spouse married to you or mom?
2006-11-22 14:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your lumps or avoid her like the plague.
I like that latter myself.
2006-11-22 14:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a divorce, don't wait and let it be 21 yrs....
2006-11-22 14:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋