I am married ....but i only want the b.j.! Is this still cheating? She is really hot...i think she wants me too....should i?
2006-11-22 13:39:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No it's not wrong, yes it is cheating, and hell yes you should!!!
2006-11-22 13:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 5 · 2⤊ 6⤋
Ask yourself this- Would you want your wife to know how you feel OR be there to witness the act? If you're a sane human being, the answer is no. So, yes, it is VERY wrong. Would you want her giving a guy a b.j. or some guy going down on her? Doubtful. You know the answer- stop trying to reason yourself into thinking it's ok.
2006-11-22 22:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is she married? well if the answer is yes now its not just your selfish need or hers it affects every one including her husband , children think in the long run , Dude your married go home to your wife for get about this girl what if you bring home a std? Can you do that to your wife ? how would you like your wife's face in some other mans pants? think about it or ask your wife if you can get a bj from this chick at work depending on her answer your decision should be made but this other chick may be married and ya know husbands may not like to have that happen with there wives's and they might come looking for you so use your head this is a nasty game to play your not in high school any more. Grow up , I feel sorry for your wife..
2006-11-22 21:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married couples may expect sexual monogamy of each other. If so, then cheating commonly refers to forms of infidelity, particularly adultery. Many people consider cheating to be any violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of a relationship, which may or may not include sexual monogamy. The boundaries to which people agree vary widely, and sometimes these boundaries evolve within each relationship.
I do not know what kind of mutual understandig you have with your wife, but if you can not tell her that you had oral sex you are cheating on her.
2006-11-22 22:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is cheating, It is oral sex. If your wife gave a bj to a coworker or she recieved a oral favor from a male co-worker what would you consider it?
2006-11-22 21:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mr B 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes sweetie it is consider cheating, sorry. The real question is can you live with it, or will you tell your wife if it happens a guilty conscience can do a hell of alot of damage. Before you try it, see if your wife will try role playing and suggest it. Tell her about this hot dream and she was a red head who took control of you oral and drove you insane with lust. You might be surprise.
2006-11-22 21:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by magicallybeautiful10plus 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is cheating. Think of how you would feel if your wife was getting or giving favors at work. Would you feel alright about it? If the answer is yes you should talk to her about it.
2006-11-22 22:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is most deffinatly cheating. Either find a new job, or your wife will leave you. You should not even be thinking about that.
2006-11-22 21:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by Muslimah 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely...go for it and you'll get a Big Jawbreaker from your wife if she ever finds out!
Are you a f'g dog or what?
2006-11-22 21:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only if you lack any morals and values.
Hope the pain and tears on your wifes face is worth it :-(
2006-11-22 21:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by me 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no thats cheating and if u cross that line there is no going back. go to your wife for that. YES U WILL BE CHEATING.......thats a choice only u can make no one can make it for u......
2006-11-22 21:43:19 · answer #11 · answered by smiley283 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋