when i am out i always catch married men checkin me out ,,at the gym, in the park when i have my shirt off. why are they always checking me out ? this really happens ,,my friends can tell you it does
2006-11-22 13:36:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Men are naturally inquisitive about each other, including others physiques. They are not necessarilly sexually attracted to other guys when they do this --it is a comparison thing.
Are some men bisexual, even to the point where they know their true orientation but don't really act on it, other than taking a quick look at other guys every once and a while? Yes. In fact, I suspect most men are bisexual to some extent.
Whe do married women put up with their bisexual husbands? Quite frankly, most women in this sort of situation don't even realize they are in that situation. They, their husbands' families and their husbands' closest male friends may not even know, and probably don't know. It's sort of a common assumption among people that if a man is married, he is straight -- and most people don't really have a concept of what bisexuality is -- they know what a straight person is and what a gay one is -- but they have a very difficult time trying to imagine what a bi guy or gal is like.
You must train a lot at a gym. You have sculpted your upper body so it looks good. That is primarily why men check you out, especially when you take your shirt off. It may not be a sexual thing at all; it may be guys admiring your physique, an outer expression of your masculinity.
Hope this helps you to understand these guys better.
2006-11-22 18:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some women get married thanks to youthful, and did not take a even as to look into themselves first. they did no longer have a image of their heads of what they needed in a guy and they'd no idea how a guy would finally end up contained in the destiny. So with their rose colored glasses on they walked down an aisle and became hoping for the perfect. After a touch growing to be they began to understand the blunders they made and if the guy has no longer grown perfect mutually such as her she might want to then settle on to go away with a lot extra information of what kind of human being she needs.
2016-11-29 09:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by kuebler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fitboy, I will try to answer your question honestly, without the snickering, like others have....
Uh, I am not gay. But I am confident-enough in my own masculinity to be able to admire another guy's physique, compliment him on it, when and if it shows that he's put plenty of time, effort into scultping it.
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In a nearly unrelated way, I understand you, and what you experience. Until I tell people that I am the dad of three kids, twin boys and a daughter, they think I am gay or bi-sexual, since I have drop-dead good looks. I am not, AM NOT bragging, but it happens, and that's why. If you and I were friends, you'd be telling me the same thing about my looks, that I'd be telling you about your bod.
Not gay...(I did do the bi-thing once, in college...)
2006-11-22 13:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I totally believe you, to many straight women are stupid and dont see this. They are blind. This is also a reason that the spread of AIDS and other STD's is so high, closeted men that are married doing it with guys on the downlow and then bringing it home to their wives. They want to blame the spread of aids on homosexuals, when in reality, its the closet cases that are at fault.
2006-11-22 13:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as one of these 'men', be flattered. When I look at a fit and attractive single guy I may be fantasizing or wishing I could get my body to look that way. It doesn't mean I'm going to rush up and hit on him. Relax and try not to be so homophobic.
2006-11-22 13:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ask, maybe I'll tell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because someone is bi does not mean they cheat! The guys checking you out are probably just window shopping. My girlfriend is completely okay with my bisexuality so I wouldn't doubt if there's are too.
2006-11-22 14:48:18 · answer #6 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with a straight guy admiring your body.. hell if you look like your picture no wonder .. they probly wish they looked like that too it dont mean they are checking you out ..i know i look at women who i think have a nice body and wish i looked like that...can i ask you what are some of the clues that a guy is bi
2006-11-22 13:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im bi and i c what you meen but they could be lookin at you like o hes muscular i wish i had a boddie like that or damn he has some tight lookin eyes depends on the prespective i know i may see a precious adorable little girl and may stare for a minute but im not a petafile lol.
2006-11-22 13:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey it happens are you the type to be a married mans Mr. mistress!
2006-11-22 13:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by qdeezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're probably just wondering why you can't use English correctly, despite being a grown man and nothing else more.
2006-11-22 13:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by Belie 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋