ok my friend she reeks and all and if i tell her or write her a note without sighning it she will tell on me cuz she knows its me and i will either get suspendedor i will be yelled at by the teacher and i had to stay in ssc for a hole day and miss a party so wat should i do about it without gettin in trouble or having to tell the teacher to talk to her cuz they wont do a thing about it.
2006-11-22 13:16:49 · 11 answers · asked by Emily L 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
What are you, the stink police?
I absolutely don't get you or the other school brats who have written in like it's okay to criticize "in a helpful way" your friends. Do any of you like to be hurt? I can just see a school full of teenagers running around sobbing because you're all so helpful pointing out each other's flaws in the name of "friendship". When did this version of friendship start?
With friends, you're there for them no matter what. You don't judge or criticize or tell them what to do with their hair or their boyfriends or their body odor. Would you want someone telling you that you are selfish or immature or a gutless coward because you leave notes for people who offend you?
I don't think you're trying to be her friend. Your question is all about you, and you sound like a major drama queen, worried about how being a snitch will fall back on you. Face it, you aren't trying to help her. You're trying to find a way to be nasty without getting caught. You even said the teachers won't do anything about it, so why bother embarrassing or humiliating this girl?
Maybe she can't take showers at home because she has a stepfather who likes to watch. Maybe she can't wash her own clothes because her mom's a drunk and doesn't want to take the girl to the laundrymat. You don't know WHAT her situation is, so why not focus on yourself (like you aren't already) and see what needs improvement there? That should keep you busy for awhile.
Good luck.
2006-11-23 14:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by Charlotte M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were her true friend, you would tell her face to face in a nice round-a-bout way, while taking into consideration her feelings.
Maybe you can invite her over for a pamper night and you can do face masks, foot scrubs, etc, then let her keep the products you use together.
Be kind! A note is a horrible idea!
2006-11-22 13:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kridwen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her because she is a good friend and wouldn't want to hear it from other people talking behind her back you are addressing a sensitive subject she may not be aware of. Then tell her with her body chemistry her present deorderant is not working and she probably needs to change it and be sure to put it on right after her daily shower to be sure it is working. Tell her you are not telling her this to upset her or be ugly, as a friend you thought you should mention it to her before she ask you why you hadn't. Good Luck!
2006-11-22 13:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i had a woman chum that became into attempting for years. she became into 5 days late, drained, her boobs injury ect. so she went to the shop and offered a container if attempt. 3 days in a row she have been given a pos attempt. so she went into the dr and that they did a blood attempt and it became into neg. she have been given her pierod 3 days later. she became into super bumed so only recognize that even nonetheless that's extremely uncommen a pretend pos does ensue.
2016-10-04 06:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her some nice smelling shower gel. tell her you use it and really like it and the store had a two for one sale so you got her one.
2006-11-22 13:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by Diana K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did u know 14 is the stinkiest age?
pull her aside and tell her personally. or call her. she cnat get mad at u if u tell her from ur heart
2006-11-22 13:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell her arter class damn tell her to go to the bathroom if you can smell her across the classroom by pointing to the door then raise your hand and say can i use the bathroom
2006-11-22 13:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by stranger 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
let me tell yuo something okay if she was your true friend she would understand and she would know that u r trying 2 help her out.
2006-11-22 13:19:21 · answer #8 · answered by naijababe92 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
type a note and print it out and stick it where she'll find it. that way she doesn't recognize the handwriting.
2006-11-22 13:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by yamidragon990 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
buy perfume n deoderent for xmas n soap n **** like that
2006-11-22 13:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋