I mean life, life really sucks, it might be a lot easier if I wasn't here, there would be no more heartache, no more drama, no more fighting with my girl, no more horrible holidays to look forward to, no more money problems, why the hell am I here, I don't really know if I could end it, but I think about it often, maybe if I had a gun I could pull the trigger?, I can't think of a good enough reason to stay, I don't have nothing to offer this world, it seems useless to just be here, just living, why just be????
2006-11-22 13:03:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i know exactly how you feel...i'm sorry, but ending our lives isn't the answer we would leave behind people who truly love us, i wish i knew what the right words to say...if you believe in god just pray to him to make you feel better & try to think positive that things will eventually be better....i feel ya...if you need to talk just email me, my email is available on here....just don't hurt yourself, god bless
2006-11-22 13:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by yahooligan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think many people including myself have felt like you - felt like ending it. But, of course, don't do it!
Sometimes, we have problems that seem overwhelming and feel there is no solution. But it's not true - there are solutions - however, sometimes, the solutions are not easy, not quick - it requires time, hard work, effort, thinking, planning.
Why not give yourself a break - don't be so hard on yourself - you have problems - you can't solve them in one day - take it slowly and think about what you want to do.
You wrote "I can't think of a good enough reason to stay, I don't have nothing to offer this world, it seems useless to just be here, just living"
I think you do have something to offer this world - every single person on this earth has something to offer and you are included. You just have not figured out yet, what your purpose, goal in life is and how you can be of use to this world.
Do not despair - if you need professional help - please get it.
If you need time out - then take a vacation and rest.
The main thing for you to realize is that you are a precious human being - you have the greatest gift in the world - life. No matter how bleak things seem to you, you have the power to change it and there is always hope. Never give up on yourself and the world - You are needed here.
2006-11-23 08:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by happy inside 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life can be like a roller coaster some times. Sometimes it really sucks and then other times it's so wonderful. When it's bad you have to keep reminding yourself of all the good you've had in your life and look forward to it being good again, and try to do things that will help make it good. Just being here asking your question, asking for help, shows that you are doing something positive to make things better. That's a good sign. You're on the right track! AND, did you happen to notice how many total strangers have taken time out of their busy lives to stop and help YOU, to try to encourage you, and help you with your problem. People who have never met you and most likely never will meet you love you enough that we couldn't scroll past when we read your question, we had to stop and lend a hand. Hang in there buddy. Life gets better. When I was in my teens and early 20s for a few years I wished I had the guts to do myself in. Now that those days are far behind I thank God every day that He got me through them.
2006-11-22 21:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by nachtmann2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite a few years ago, about six now I felt I had lost everything that was important in my life. A cheating wife ended my happiness for me and my relationship with my kids. A tree at 100 looked good until within 30 feet. Your life is more important to you than anything lifes ups and downs can send your way. My cold feet if you like has given me a new wife, 3step children and 3 terific grand kids. Life may test you but dont give up. There is light at the end of the tunnel
2006-11-23 02:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by PHILBEE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did consider ending my life a few times, but I am now very glad that I didn't. It sounds like a lot is going on in your life right now and a lot of people have very hard times during the holidays. Call a suicide hotline or a distress centre - the numbers should be at the front of your telephone book. A doctor or a counselor will be able to help you make sense of things. I wish you all the best.
2006-11-22 21:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T JUST BE. If you don't like your life right now, make changes. Figure out what is bringing you down because I guarantee there is something, or maybe a few things, that you are really hating in your life but you keep doing them or allowing them in your life. Do you like your job? If not, look for something new? Do you like where you live? If not, look for a new location. If you're still in junior high or high school then my absolute advice is STICK WITH IT. Those times can really really suck, but the real world is much better then that because you have choices. You can be around the people who you like and who make you happy.
2006-11-22 21:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by spring2096 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK EVERY BODY HAS THAT FEELIN OF GIVING UP BUT THERE HAS TO BE SOMETHING YOU LOOK FOWARD TO IN LIFE. LIKE I LOOK FORWARD TO HAVING KIDS. AN THATS NOT GOIN TO HAPPEN UNLESS I STAY HERE.
IF YOU BELIEVE IN GOD. THINK ABOUT IT. YOU END YO LIFE YOU GO STR8 TO HELL. AN THATS EVEN WORSE THAN BEING ON THIS WORLD.
THINK ABOUT YO PARENTS AN YO GIRL. WHAT WOULD SHE DO IF SHE LOST YOU. OR SWITCH IT UP. IF YOU LOT THE PERSON THAT WAS CLOSE TO YOU.
IF YOU HAVE PROBLEMS WITH ANYBODY JUST TELL THEM STR8 UP HOW YOU FEEL DONT BITE YO TOUNG FOR ANY BODY.
YOU ONLY HVE ONE LIKE TO LIVE. SO LIVE IT UP
NESHA
2006-11-22 21:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by Nesha T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
every body in the world can realet to that even oprah daniel trumpt and so forth. i know what you mean i cry every week and day and year of my life it suck i say to my self why am i here it's not fair but when i feel like that it mike me one know that it's not gona be or bitter honey would fall one day, some time it takes long time to, but if you end it what do you know the after life have to offer you, if you can make it here you can't make after you die thas what keep me going.
2006-11-22 23:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good reason to stay is to remember that for everyone that kills themselves, they leave at least 6 people in deep pain who want to know why, are full of guilt for not being able to stop their loved one, are more prone to suicide themselves and whose lives will be chaos and pain while you have made the choice to end your own pain.
My little sister committed suicide in August. It's left so many of us so crushed and utterly devastated. Her pain is gone but it has impacted the lives of those who knew her in so many ways she could never have known.
Please call 1.800.SUICIDE They can help you get help you need.
2006-11-22 21:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by L R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sometimes life is hard.
But as the song says, God puts mountains in our path so we can learn how to climb. Are you truly learning anything? Perhaps that is the problem.
2006-11-22 21:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋