If so did you all work it out or not.
2006-11-22 12:44:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My ex husband took me for granted nearly the whole 20 years I was with him. He saw it as he treated me like a queen; I and everyone else saw it as he treated me like crap, took me for granted, etc. I am soooooooooooo glad we are divorced now! His life went to the sh*ts after I left him. He lost his apartment and his job so he moved into his dad's 28 foot fifth wheel trailer. The bad thing is that the dog we had together just passed away this just over a week ago (she was nearly 10 years old and had a heart attack).
My life got way better after I left him. I met someone, we moved in together a few months later, and we plan on being married next year! I am going back to school to get my Bachelor's in Psychology and don't have to work, tho I might do it anyway, just part-time.
2006-11-22 14:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes! Yes! Yes!
Yes I do believe every couple goes through this sometime or another but the thing is that sometimes, your spouse may not realize that until something happens to stop you from being there in that ever so loving way, and then sometimes just a talk one on one will help, I feel like that a lot sometimes but, then I too realize that this is all apart of being with another person and being in love with that person, I have a husband and children so I think and feel like that may be once a week or even a day but when they tell me "Honey you know I love right?" or "Momma I love you" it makes it all worth it all for me...................I wish you the best and Happy Holidays...........................
2006-11-22 20:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think all couples go through it to a certain degree. You may not intentionally do it or your partner may not intentionally do it, but it takes place. I am in a situation, we have not been together long and I feel he does not consider my feelings at times. One of my biggest pet peeves is saying you will do something and then you don't to it. I think if you and your partner are really committed to making the relationship work, both of y'all can talk to each other and learn how to not take each other for granted
2006-11-22 20:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by shy one 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes i did and no it didn't if i am not worth his time or attention then we don't need to be together i'm glad i left because i am now in a relationship where i am appericiated and i am am told and shown that i am everyday. I also think that in his prior relationship he was taken for granted and knows the feeling and he will not do that to me. I love my hubby he is the best. And also they never change cause i speak to my ex's chick and he does it to her now oh well.
2006-11-22 20:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by SanDee 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm so there with you, I've been with my boyfriend for 11 years I've given him everything he could possibly wanted in life & yet he's still not satisfied with our live together. We've tried on many occassions to work things out but we always end up in square one where we started, at this point I don't think it'll ever work for us because so many things has happened & so many years has gone by...it's too late!
2006-11-22 21:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Buggaboo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well let me tell ya whatThat is when true love and relaibilty comes in My wife takes it for granted I do what I do and I take it for granted she does what she does. Congratulations on a lifelong relatioship
2006-11-22 20:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tried to work it out but he just kept on taking & when I said NO then I was the bad person I was supposed to pay all the bills while he spent his money on what he wanted I finally walked out I just got tired of it.Hope this helps
2006-11-22 21:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by lonesomeangel2002 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I believe my husband takes me for granted at times,But also i take him for granted at times too..Its pretty much give and take, I think its very common for this to happen at times. and we have a very good marriage..If it happens alot then we know its time for a good talk lol
2006-11-22 21:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by Shem 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, many times, even before my husband.
Yes, my husband does take me for granted sometimes. It's an ongoing process.
2006-11-22 21:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by The_Cricket: Thinking Pink! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was half-dating a guy throughout most of ninth grade. He was too wrapped up in himself to notice how much I liked him. We had a falling-out, and now we don't speak very often. It was that situation that partly contributed to my refusal to date.
2006-11-22 20:46:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋