About a month ago, I wrote down in a notebook the things that my friend was doing that made it feel awkward and me feel sad around her. I had forgotten I had the notebook opened on my desk today, and she saw it and got mad about what it said. I had written in there that she had made rude comments and been pushy. I know very well why she was mad, because I'd be too if someone thought that about me. She wouldn't talk to me for a while. Then, when she came out of her room to leave for home I told her I was sorry. Then she told me I made her feel like a terrible person because all I had written down was bad things about her and that she wanted to go home where people don't judge her. I never intended to hurt her feelings at all. Sometimes we have these moments where we bug each other, and I just wanted to see how often it happened. That's why I wrote it down. I don't know what to do to show her I'm sorry. She won't be back for 4 days, so I'm left here to worry. What should I do?
2006-11-22 11:49:08 · 1 answers · asked by JobSeeker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well I'd probably would be upset also, but not only for the fact that it was written but the lack of communication. If my friend was getting on my nerves I would tell her and talk about it with her and see how things get get fixed. I am sure she finds things annoying of you also. I mean everyone is always going to annoy each other over things. she will get over it eventually just talk to her explain why you did it or just leave it as something of the past and hang out more and show her that there is not only things about her that are bad but also good. make a list of good things this time and leave it open on your desk.
Good Luck!
2006-11-24 06:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋