this friend that i know almos for a year and she hates her friends lye to her and i did alot and she said stop lyeing or we will no be friends eny more but sence then she dosen't talk to me as she uses to and i told her that i stop lyeing but she dosen't talk to me eny more and i miss that how can i be her friend againg and she talks to me again and so i don't feel bad. i'm stupid for lyeing to her and i told her and she said is ok but she dosen't talk to me still and feels bad waht should i do so she talks to me and be her friend again...??
2006-11-22 11:39:42 · 13 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it's hard to regain someone's trust once youve lost it so i dont know what to tell you its her decision and i dont think that there is anything you can do.
2006-11-22 12:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is one of a friend that you have there and the reason why is she is able to point out your less positive side.Be honest with her and talk to her totally honest and see if you can work out the reason why you lied. Is it to be accepted? Some people have more things or we may think they have better lives but what enriches us the most is being kind, loving and giving people who show total respect for others fortunes and misfortunes.The biggest thing here is finding out why you have the need to lie and stopping it because obviously for her to be your friend in the first place before you lied she must have found something attributing in your personality....and that can be the greatest part of frienship.Ask her if she would spend some time with to help you and if she feels she cant go and see a counsellor to get help that way so future friendships are going to be rock solid....good luck
2006-11-22 20:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when a friend feels betrayed its gonna take awhile before they can ever feel close to you again. You'll have to be patient and tell her that you miss being her friend, and you understand how hard it is for her to trust you, but you hope that she'll give you another chance to prove that you really want to be her friend again. That you'll be there when she can be friends with you again.
Good luck.
2006-11-22 20:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult to gain the trust of people after they have been disappointed.Give your friend some time but do your best to win her trust back.Imagine yourself in her place,would u forgive easily?She will accept u back,continue to be a good friend.
2006-11-22 20:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by Phy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why did you lie to her.
talk to her and instead of just walking away when she doesnt talk keep on walking with her explain why you lied to her and understand how shes feeling
2006-11-22 20:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by sugerpiecutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you really di not want to loose the friendship, go and buy roses and present to her with your appology.
2006-11-22 20:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by THILLAI a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that your really sorry and that you'll never do it again.
2006-11-22 20:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you miss her and that your really sorry.
2006-11-22 20:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by Darkangel617 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad, she told u to stop and u still continue...
2006-11-22 20:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that your sorry and that you miss talking to her.
2006-11-22 20:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by Adrian R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋