What are some of the ways that guys have tried to change you and you didnt like?
2006-11-22 11:10:27 · 12 answers · asked by me 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Years ago a guy tried to change everything about me on our first date. He didn't like my nickname so he tried to make me use my first name. He tried to redress me. He didn't like my shirt out of my jeans so he tucked it in and he tried to change my hairstyle. He started to tell me how I was going to act and that's when I turned on my heals and walked home. I don't regret it.
2006-11-22 11:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by righteousrose 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
When I was 19 I used to go out with a dismal anus that wanted to change almost everything about me. My hair, my clothes, my make up (once he even resorted to doing it for me! and badly, might I add), complained my **** were too big, I wasn't allowed to talk to certain people, blah blah blah. 'Did this boy not have his eyes and ears open when he met me, and for the past X months?' I thought. We broke up and I can honestly say it was the singular best thing that has ever happened to me. If only because after him I appreciated all my other boyfriends for not being so stupid and crass. I am so ashamed I was ever with him, and if I saw him today I would deny knowing him. Thats how bad he is.
I would never do this to a man. You either accept someone for who they are or you find someone more suited to you. End of.
2006-11-22 13:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by edith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a painter, I like to get dirty, and I work very hard. I won't change that for anyone. Some guys find me too...independent (?) because I make a decent living in a very difficult career.
I am good at what I do and I'd rather be single than to change a thing.
2006-11-22 12:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, a guy when i was a teenager wanted me to wear cert in types of clothes and wear my hair a cert in way ! He told me how to act and what to laugh! What music and TV shows I should like!
I was very happy when I left him because when someone tries changes you then you are not the person you really are ! You are a phony ! Unconditional and true love is accepting the person for who they really are!
2006-11-25 19:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by browneyedgirliegurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-12 22:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by porix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy once,and he tried to change who I was to much.He didn't like the way I had my hair cut,he didn't like the colour of my hair,the way I dressed when we would go out,and my nick name.He wasn't long before I realised that he was trying to change me into his ex girlfriend that had broke up with him.I broke it off very quickly after realising what he was doing.
2006-11-22 11:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
yes i once dated a guy who basically tried to change my whole personallity....i wasnt aloud to be so friendly, i couldnt say this or that, i had to dress a different way, what friends to get rid of.....i got sick of it after a week or two and dumped him...no regrets.
2006-11-22 12:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ellen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is always doing things like taking me to waterparks, when he knows I hate swimming and heights (especially combined) or slipping food that I hate into my meals (like chopped up mushroom or prawns) - little things like that.
I don't think it's about 'changing' me so much as it is about power. Usually I just tell him to go to hell and leave me alone!
2006-11-22 11:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by the_fatmanwalksalone 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He wanted to reconvert me back to Islam! no way was that going to happen.... he made me stop clubbing, no more short shorts, or skirts, if my nipples were still visible through the bra and shirt, he freaked and started putting band-aids on them.... he wanted me to stop being friends with all my guy friends, he wanted me to be his sugar momma everytime he was behind on payments of whatever..... he was an asshole..... so I dumbed him...!
2006-11-22 16:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one guy didn't like when i wore lipstick and always wanted my beautiful curls straightened. that was a long time ago in a galaxy far away! i think he was afraid that other men may find me attractive.
2006-11-25 05:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by punkbun03 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋