good to me in so many aspects of our lives together ( 20 YEARS )
he's always been supportive in almost everything except he gets very defensive, critical, last word freak, and we no longer have sex together because " he's no longer attracted to me " WHAT SHOULD I DO
????????????????? PLEASE HELP ME
2006-11-22 11:09:27 · 10 answers · asked by sweetness #1 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He actually said that he was no longer attracted to you?! omg...sounds like a control freak to me. Why would YOU be attracted to him? 20 years you've put up with that behavior and now he's going to deprive you of sex? That's enough! Sex is like the oxygen, water, food, our bodies need, humans need love and affection. Keep him if you must but there's better out there for you.
2006-11-22 11:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and ask him why he is no longer attracted 2 u and maybe try 2 rediscover eachother again were sexy outfits try different things in the bedroom and if that doesn't work u mite have 2 leave the more time u spend in a relationship that isn't going anywere the less time u spend with Mr right life is to short
2006-11-22 19:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by mrs motorcross 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm reading "he's no longer attracted to me" correctly, he is seeing someone else whom he is attracted to? I don't know why men are such jerks, or why women put up with this crap. He is a controlling bastard, and he's murdering what's left of your self esteem, and self respect.
Scrape what's left of your dignity off the floor, and kick this guy to the curb. Get some support from friends and family and lose this sob. You have the last word...........Good Bye.
2006-11-22 20:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends !!!
Are you taking care of yourself ?
I mean , a man wants to see a woman who takes care of herself , and it doesn't mean that after 20 years it's no longer necessary .
Men will always be men .
Taken care of your hair , a little make up , can do wonders .
Do something different to get his attention .
There are so many ways to keep a man interested .....you'll have to work on that .
2006-11-22 19:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is no longer attracted to you. he loves you but he is not in love with you anymore it's gonna be hard but think of the exciting new life you will have dating and find new love. you gotta set him free before the both of you are miserable or even worse he gets physically abusive because you are already suffering mental abuse believe it or not love don't hurt it says that in the bible.
2006-11-22 20:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by spagetti7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get professional help.
Take an honest look at the causes. But remember it can be you and him that need to either change or accept the other person as they are.
Good luck.
2006-11-22 19:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Find someone that's likes you and is going to treat you right. Life is to short to worry about being treated mean.
2006-11-22 19:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by melly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still loves u girl but he is probly imbarised try having a talk with him
2006-11-22 19:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by Marinea S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO SEX!! Wow maybe counseling-I am not sure!!
2006-11-22 20:34:49 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a break let it go and relax
2006-11-22 20:35:47 · answer #10 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋