Tell each other our deepest darkest secret. And they all told their secrets and when it was my turn, I couldn't tell them. I told them that I didn't have one. My secret is I never kissed a boy before and their stories was my friend losing her virginty, my friend getting raped by her cousin, and my other friend was under peer pressure to have sex with her boyfriend. And all of theire stories had to do with boys and I never kissed a boy. I had boyfriends in my past but never tongued kissed them and making out. And I couldn't even tell my best friend that. Should I tell them, since they told me there secrets.
Im 16
2006-11-22 11:01:08 · 8 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your secret doesn't have to revolve around what you did or did not do with your bf.
However considering your age. I think its perfectly fine that you did not take sex into consideration with your bf.
You still need to be mature enough to make that decision, at-least until you're 19.
However I don't see the harm in telling your friends that you're still a virgin or never kissed a guy. If they're really your friends they will understand and appreciate you for who you are and your choices.
2006-11-22 11:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by synapse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to know what if you feel like you should tell them then go for it that's all i can say there's nothing wrong with being completely honest...if they are true friends then there's nothing to worry about. Plus you never know maybe some of them made up a story because they thought they were they only one who has not done anything yet, and another thing don't give into peer pressure like your other friend it happens at the right time for everyone:)
2006-11-22 11:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...don't feel pressure to share information that's really none of their business. You're feeling like you're being immature; but, did it ever occur to you that they might be telling big fat lies just to cover up their inexperience? Hey, play the game if you have to do it, tell a whopper, but keep the "real" stuff to yourself. Tell them this: I went on two dates at once. When my date went to the bathroom, I left with the other guy! I did do that (and it wasn't nice) but it made a good story. I'm very proud you didn't cave in to peer pressure. Godloveya.
2006-11-22 11:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like they were open with you but they had the same choice to keep quiet too - no rules about these things hunny so try not to stress about it
as for not having kissed a guy with tongues yet - good for you - waiting for the right one is a great idea - will make it all the more special when it happens
~x~
2006-11-22 11:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by mousie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should because thay told you their secrets and that means they trust you.And most importanly because they are your friends and no some strangers.
2006-11-22 11:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they're your best friend then they wont care. ok maybe they'll tease you for a little bit but they will respect you (if they're your real friends). when my friends ask me who i like, i just tell 'em. cuz i know they're my friends
2006-11-22 11:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by Frijoles Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want.god bless you
2006-11-22 11:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would.
2006-11-22 11:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋