2006-11-22 10:13:55 · 20 answers · asked by Puppy love 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
hmm, excuse my language, but screw what everyone else thinks.
What do you think? Do you look good to YOU?
Guys like to mess with women's minds. Don't listen to them. Do what's right to you. If you feel good inside, then that's all that matters. Do stuff because you want it, not because THEY want it. Do it for you, not for others.
2006-11-22 10:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by Voice 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
All the guys? Awww.. OK. First you should work on yourself from many different angles..Make friends with some more attractive girls if you can and pay attention to what they do as far as grooming is concerned, if not look into basic things like hygiene hair removal make up etc. Alot of attractiveness is personality, but its hard to have a up beat personality if you are thinking about whatever you feel unattractive by so aim every day too improve on something, and eventually you will feel better about yourself and things will have a domino effect. Do some exercise, and focus where it looks like you need focus, if you have a big tummy do some cardio and crunches, if you have a big butt do some cardio and glute exercises (but don't lose too much butt). Hold your shoulders back, walk with confidence. Warning: on the path of self improvement many will see your efforts and make fun of whatever else they see you might take as a weakness to make you feel worse and in turn give them a boost. So be mindful, don't allow those things to have an effect on you (example: if you weigh 220lbs and lose 40 lbs there will be someone to say well you're still fat unattractive etc) The true test of you character will be if you stay focused and continue to improve if you do it will benefit you a hundred times over in the course of your life. I'm not just shooting off some bs I've been in my own version of what you are going through, things can improve dramatically. Good luck.
2006-11-22 18:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't waste your time on those guys. Sounds like a bunch of middle/high school punks to me. Grown men usually have a little more maturity/sense, and don't say such things.
2. Make sure you take care of yourself. Shower, brush your hair and teeth, the usual stuff. Don't let some jerkoff's verbal abuse make you start abusing/neglecting yourself. Exercise.
3. Dress simply. Going crazy with makeup/clothing/bling etc makes a woman look desperate. Don't underestimate the power of the little black dress, or the little red V-neck, etc.
4. Stand up straight, and don't be afraid to look people in the eye as you walk. Respect yourself, and then expect others to respect you.
5. Work on inner beauty also. The outer body fades, but you can always grow more beautiful as a person! What good is a great face and a hot body, if the person treats others like dung?
2006-11-22 19:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by MamaBear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why listen to those guys? No one is ugly - I guarantee everybody has features that are attractive and you just need to play up on those, for example - go to a salon for suggestions on a new cut/colour, play around with some new clothes that you feel comfortable in, go to the gym/exercise but more importantly hang around people that arent so shallow/ignorant. They are probably jealous of you or just mucking around... I bet you are lovely :)
From an English bird (age 26)
2006-11-22 18:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by North London Lady! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not be ugly because the guys you know might be into domineering and want to make you feel inferior so they can take advantage of you and keep you under their control. Go find other friends and ask a real doctor if he thought the same.
2006-11-22 18:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being hot and beautiful might be good at first but as you age it will fade and so with your so called superficial friends. Surround yourself with good loyal friends who accept you for who you are. Be active in your community or school. However if you are really unhappy the way you look, ask someone to give you a make over or exercise as what people here suggest. But remember, you should be doing this for yourself and not to please others. Do not be a slave to their superficial opinions.
2006-11-22 20:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only ugly if you believe those guys. It doesnt matter what they say to you. Your beautiful in your eyes, and its whats on the inside that counts. Those guys are just jerks trying to ruin your day. Dont listen to them, your not ugly.
2006-11-25 22:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mayday Cay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore those a**holes. There's better people out there that will respect you. You don't need to spend thousands of dollars and be in pain, emotionally and physically, to adjust to someone else's idea of beauty. Just respect and take care of the body you have and ignore people that try to treat you like that. Or pummel them unconscious...
2006-11-22 20:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether you want to want to be good looking for them!
I am sure you are ok, beauty is in the eye of the beholder
2006-11-22 18:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by elaine g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true beauty lies in what the mind is looking for therefore because of all the differing opinions on this earth no one person is beautiful to everyone else you are beautiful to plenty of people i'm sure
2006-11-22 20:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋