two weeks ago and he has moved in with her already. Do rebound relationships like this usually last? he has never broken up with anyone but me? do you think they will last? we have 2 kids, I am 22 he is 24. He never calls about the kids because he says he is having so much fun.
2006-11-22 10:13:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
His relationship may not last, but then he'll just find the next one to have fun with.
My advice for you is to file for sole custody of the kids and file for child support. Protect your children.
2006-11-22 10:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You know this is a tough one. I've gone through several drafts trying to give some kind of decent advice, but every time I get to the end, I realize that it just sucks! I finally realized that we need to make an assumption. You and he were basically living as man and wife, even though you and he were not intelligent enough to get married. This bypassing of responsibility has basically screwed up everything! So if we accept that he was virtually your husband, then we must accept that he has cheated on you. Unfortunately you can't divorce him because, well, you messed up! However, you can make him pay for his actions. Go get a lawyer, make him pay child support, and make him pay dearly! Don't be nice. Nice GIRLS finish last too! You now, are basically free to go out with other guys. Due to his indiscretions. Although something deep inside me says it's wrong. Please, don't make the same mistake twice! Next time make the guy put a wedding ring on your finger before you give it up! Engagement rings mean nothing apparently.
2006-11-22 18:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk, first of all for leaving you and your kids. Next, she's stupid for taking such a jerk. This little fling may last and it may not (probably not!). You have to realize that you may not want him after he's done with his fun. It just irks me that he has all of a sudden forgot about his children. Since he doesn't want to call about the kids, look into child support. I'm sure once they start withdrawing from his check, he'll think about the kids. I'm sorry this is happening to you, but if I were you I'd focus on myself and my kids. What A Jerk!
2006-11-22 18:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by downinmn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just a jerk and I don't think that, that relationship will last because when he gets tired of her he will move to the next woman. Keep your head up, move on with your life, and take very good care of your children for they are the most important thing in your life now. Please don't be dumb enough to take him back because you don't know what he will be bringing back to you and the kids. There are a lot of single good men out there.
2006-11-22 18:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by judy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guest it is time to find a lawyer,Even you and him are not marred he has two children to support,MAKE HIM.The new will ware off of her and he will try to craw back home if you let him you are a dummy.If he come back it want be the same.And don't use the children you can take care of them until you find you another good man this time before you have children with another have him put a ring on your finger(get married)You need to raise h@LL WITH HIM OVER THE children,they need there Dad so go get yourself a lawyer take is *** to court make him pay Child support and what every you can get out of him.
2006-11-22 18:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be glad he left now when you've got 2 kids instead of later with 4.
Thank your lucky stars his tru colors showed up while you are still young and are able to start over.
Now take this opportunity to make yourself better, for you as well as your children and find a real man who can really be a father and role model to your kids.
He'll be doing the same thing to her soon.
2006-11-22 18:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He frontin if the man is braggin so much he missin you and since he actin like that dont worry about him do what you do and if he missin you that much either he gonna talk you bout if and only he strong and if he aint he gonna try to rub it in yo face and as it goes for only eva cuttin you a man gonna be a man next year give or take he gonna be wantin you cuz you got something more that 19 year old girl do. She is a lil girl you is a grown women think about it
2006-11-22 18:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an attorney. Child support for two children will put the screws to that jackass for the next 18 years.
2006-11-22 21:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by johngolfs2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you had 2 kids with a jerk, sorry about your luck. Move on don't take him back after he has been out sleeping with other people. Find a man who will respect you.
2006-11-22 18:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by mistypa12000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Such an egoist doesn't deserve to have children. He most probably thinks that cheating on a wife is normal or in.
Children need stable parents - he was obviously too young to have any.
2006-11-22 18:18:23 · answer #10 · answered by kika 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋