i have tried to stop all contact because he is mentally abusive with me and being pregnant I can't handle the stress right now. When I don't hear from him I really feel myself get stronger but then he sends me a message and I go back being weak
2006-11-22 10:01:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You just have to keep being strong hun, I know it's hard but think about whats best for you and the baby. You will end up meeting a much better guy that will love both you and the baby. So dont let your ex get you down. =]
2006-11-22 10:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by Nena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible because he is an assh0le! look you are pregnant with his child, you need to contact the state or an attorney to find out what your rights are. No matter what he will need to pay support after the kids are born, but he may also be financially responsible for some of your current expenses. He was a nasty loser who left you when he knew you were pregnant, the most you will ever get from him is financial support as he is too immature to provide more at this time. You should not be expecting more. Contact a lawyer ASAP.
2016-05-22 19:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make all contact with him written or e-mailed communication only. This way he has to think about what he is writing and knows that this information can and will be used in court for any visitation rights he might have as the father. Save all of your communications with him, and if he threatens you, get a restraining order. Be safe for you and you baby and keep your head up.
2006-11-22 10:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your number, don't let him know where u are, keep a low profile, I mean if this is his kid he will have rights to the child once it is born, and if you can keep it hidden then do the best you can do. Do you have family some other place where you can go? This is not good for you. I hope that you can get the protection you need to stay safe. Good Luck
2006-11-22 10:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right you don't need or deserve this, you sound like a lovelly sensible person who could find someone better.I think if his abusiveness continues you should report him to the police and they will put an injunction order on him, if he breaks that then he will be arrested and locked up.Please do not put up with him, just concentrate on your baby, if afterwards he wants contact tell him to change his ways or do not let him see it, after all if he is abusive to you then he cant be trusted around a baby.
2006-11-22 10:08:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone # and make it private. Change your e-mail address and if you can, it is recommended you change your living address. In the meantime get some help from someone to boost your assertiveness. Surround yourself with well meaning friends and family, and be happy with your baby.
When you are strong enough then you can contact him, if you want to, to arrange for him to see his child.
He's a bully. If you give him an inch, he'll take a mile.
Just be strong.
2006-11-22 10:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on your baby. Do you want your baby to live in an abusive environment? Forget the man and live right for your child.
2006-11-22 10:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to remember to keep what is important to you as a Priority right now then you can always deal with him later
2006-11-22 10:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by Andrea M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't care about him right now if he's abusive then he not a good guy do you should try to find out how your going to support your baby and once you have that all figured out then you should try to find somoneelse that will support you and someone that will really love you
2006-11-22 10:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mandip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a lawyer becuase you're going to HAVE to contact him for child support.
2006-11-22 11:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋