She locked me out of her room as a joke and i over reacted by getting relly mad and crying cuz i thought she was being mean and now shes crying and stuff because it was just a joke and she didnt hear me yelling to let me in. She was hurt that i thought she relly meant it. I relly miss her. The problem is, she won't take a sorry and i have been begging her to forgive me.
HELP!
2006-11-22 09:50:35 · 14 answers · asked by wcs_superstar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Things like this happen but they only end up strengthening the friendship.Since you said you've tried talking to her why not send her a note telling her how sorry you are for misunderstanding her,tell her you really miss her and that you want her around.Write to her from you heart how you truly feel not having her around.Then at the back of ur letter write "pls read" just incase she might want to trash it without reading.After making sure she has recieved it,try going to see her at a time you know she's less busy.For her to have cried at the fact that u misunderstood her,she cares and feel bad dat u dont even know wat she's capable of.She cheer up she cares abt u so i know she'll come around.Gudluck in ur friendship.Take care.
2006-11-22 10:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to her that you are sorry but you were hurt and scared that you'd done something wrong without knowing it and were worried that maybe she was upset and that she couldn't tlk to you bout it tell her your really sorry bout the misunderstanding and that you don't want to lose your best friend.
It might be best if you say this to her face so she can see how sincere you are or tell her that you'd like her to read what you wrote in a letter and when she is finished reading give her a while, then have a chat about the whole thing.
You never know you both could be laughing bout this in the years to come.
Good Luck ; )
2006-11-22 10:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by Genipher17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definite, forgive is a relieving to our personal soul. you're already in hell in case you've not forgiven. which skill they nevertheless administration your concepts. you should forgive, because then your heavenly Father can forgive you. at the same time as someone holds a grudge adverse to someone, that's like maximum cancers eating away at them the position sometime it will overtake them.
2016-10-16 10:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you the one who was supposed to be mad at her? She played a practical joke on you and is getting angry because you didn't take it well?
If she really were your best friend, she shouldn't be mad at you.
2006-11-22 09:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let time heal things between the two of you.
2006-11-22 09:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apologize Once cause she deserves it. Aplologize Twice to prove you mean it.
If she doesn't accept it, don't apologize again. Twice is enough.
2006-11-22 09:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sincere and say how much they mean to you be persistant you cannot afford to lose one friend talk from the heart and get as much good advise as your doing good luck
2006-11-22 09:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by woodsonhannon53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a note and tell her that you miss being friends and really just want to have fun again.
2006-11-22 09:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by Latte2Go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
built a bridge and get over it
get a new life and move on!!!!
she really is not ur friend if she did that to u
2006-11-22 09:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya'll are white huh? well let me tell you the black way. fu** her azz. move on she don't know what a best friend is if she can't forgive and forget.
good luck
2006-11-22 09:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋