well my group of friends sort of split up. basically this girl hates me and she said that she didnt want to be my friend anymore. now everyone else idolizes her, and always do what she tells them to. so they went along with her. but one of them is pretty close to me, so she stayed with me. everyone else is always asking me why im not hanging out with them(they dont know that we got "kicked out"). now i tried to be nice to the person who kicked me out, but she was never nice to me. the other person that i hang out with now is um.......the least popular kid in the class.i just want advice wat should i do?
2006-11-22 09:46:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Who cares about popularity? Most of these people you will not talk to anymore after graduation. Hang with the poeple who care about you, forget about the ones who dont. Do you really want to be friends with girls who don't give a crap about you?
2006-11-22 09:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your own little group forget her she is being an idiot and doesn't deserve your friendship. Keep to the friend(s) you have. school is tough stick to what you feel is right . This is when you find out who your real friends are when something like this happens.
Oh! and about these others that are asking you why your not hanging round with them tell them outright what has been going on, some might have a change of heart.
Good Luck and don't stress out too much ; )
2006-11-22 18:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by Genipher17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in ur situation, popularity is the last thing u should think about. why are u kissing @ss to someone who said she doesn't like u and turned everyone against u? ONLY cuz of popularity not cuz u really want to be her friend huh.
therefore, just focus on school, and join some activities. even tho people are rude to u in a group, more likely they will be cool to u one-on-one. the more hobbies, interests, and acquaintances u have, the more u can prove to them u are a good guy. popularity only goes so far, and btw, popularity Changes.. what if one day ur friend become popular, but leaves cuz ur not cool? so stop worryign about that, and worry about who PROVES they are good people. at ur age, it seems so important now, but later when u grow up, most likely u won't even keep in TOUCH w/ those people after college... do u want to waste time kissing butt? stop worrying about that and worry about Your life, Your character, Your Self.
good luck~
2006-11-22 17:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just know that the girl who kicked you out isn't really your friend, but the least popular kid is. eventually others will see what kinda person that girl is anyway and she'll be the least popular.
2006-11-22 18:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
true friends don't split up. they stick around. jus like the one that did. you will make more friends over time. don't sweat over the ones who did not stick by your side, you don't need them. one true friend is always better then 15 who only care about themselves. the one who stuck around may be the least popular but if push came to shove and you need dire help who would you go to first? the one who stuck by your side or those who did not?
2006-11-22 18:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by yp_kim_hollister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make the girl who kicked u out look like a fool somehow. or try and prove what kind of person she really is. good luck
2006-11-22 17:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋