I received some good advice from my last question...but I still don't know what I should do. Next week will be the last time I see this girl, we haven't met, and have barely said anything to each other. After that, I may not ever have a class with her again. We're going to have an exam, so I'm in a tough spot bc there will probably be no time to talk. What should I do so I won't regret not doing anything...I want to talk to her first but I may not get to...in that case should I just give her my phone number...or even a letter? Or is that freaky? It's seriously my last chance coming up and I don't know what I should do. I know that if I don't do something I'll always wonder...and there are plenty of people out there that could be good for me, but what if I'm missing out on a great person here, at least as a friend? Help! and thanks :)
2006-11-22 09:37:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Act... do SOMETHING! You already know that you'll regret chances not taken... so go forth and take one!
If you can communicate well by letter, than go for it. Include your number. Men get freaked out by letters (at least in my experience). Women (speaking for myself at least) are more understanding. We like to understand the status quo, and are not as threatened by words.
Love is sweet... you sound like you have a loving heart... take a chance. Best Wishes... ~ Andrea
2006-11-22 09:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mikisew 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you posted this in gay, lesbian, etc. section, I assume you are both gay? Do you know for a fact that she is? If so I would give her a Christmas card on the last day. That would not be uncalled for. In fact, it would be really nice.
In the card (make it a humorous one, not serious) tell her hi, that you wish her a happy holiday and if she has nothing planed over the holiday and just wants to chat on the phone or catch a movie or something, to give you a call. Include you phone number, then cross your fingers and hope she calls. That way the ball is in her court. If she doesn't call, then at lest you know.
2006-11-22 18:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl child I'm from the early part of the last century, but this is the 21st century, Give her the phone number or ask her out to lunch. All she can do is say no. At least then you will know. Do not fear rejection.
2006-11-22 17:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by Raymond T 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you get there early and work on building up your courage. When you see her, start a quick conversation over anything. End it with something like, "It was nice talking to you. Hey, could I get your number? Maybe we could get together after class or something?" Just an idea...
2006-11-22 21:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath.
Then ask yourself: Which of these two options will be worse?
1. Talking to her, and creating an embarassing situation that both of you will eventually forget if you never see her again.
2. Regretting it forever.
Make up your mind, and stick to it. Remind yourself of your options and your decision when you get cold feet.
In other words, TALK TO HER before you regret it!
2006-11-22 17:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is tough, I know, but you need ot just tell her you are interested. Better to get it over with right off the bat. If she doesn't roll like that, she'll let you know. Don't fear rejection.
2006-11-22 17:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just give her the letter if you cant talk to her for whatever reason ...You have nothing to lose..Its not like you'll see her again if she isnt interested...AND IF SHE IS...SCORE!!!!!!
2006-11-22 17:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
talk to her so you won't regret anything
a letter too just to slow it down and say what you mean.
2006-11-22 17:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you won't see her again just be brave and give her you mobile or email...
At the worst she can say thanks but no thanks and you don't see her again....
On the + she could snatch u hand of and well bingo....
Good luck...
You don't get anything if you dont ask.....
GO FOR IT babes....
2006-11-23 08:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by loulou777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pray about it-and read the book of Romans for some good direction-first chapter says not to worship the created but the creator Jesus-and some became unthankful and worshiped the created -and finally got turned over to reprobate minds-
while others in Ist Corinthians 6:9-13 got set free to worship Jesus first even homosexuals-And such were some of you but you have been saved by the blood of Jesus.
2006-11-22 17:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by ben 1 · 0⤊ 7⤋