2006-11-22 09:15:40 · 12 answers · asked by padregirl527 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have 3kids-(2 are mine but he adopted them-ages 16 & 14 & 1 is ours-age 7yrs.) And I can't divorce him because I am Bipolar and he will get custody of the kids.
2006-11-22 09:18:31 · update #1
Be grateful for what you have and take your meds. The alternatives don't seem to offer you a better situation. I mean you leave and loose the kids to be free...then what? I'm not looking for a bi-polar gf with 3 kids from previous relationships. Sorry if you feel trapped, but life isn't always fair and if nothing else you've got a husband who loves you. Be happy for what you have vs what you think you want.
2006-11-22 10:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may not get custody just because you are bipolar and if you did divorce him, the courts would try to do what is best for the children.
Talk to a pastor or counselor maybe it is something else and you are just relating it to not being in love anymore. do things like you did before you were married. go on dates with him, get a sitter and have fun with your husband.
2006-11-22 09:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by porsha226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you fall out of love? Is it because of your condition. Try two things. One go to your doctor and get your medicine checked if need be change your medications. Then for number two trying going to a counselor. The real you may still be in love with your husband.
2006-11-22 09:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by cm f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the hardest point of most marriages. Understand that he might have problems too.
Work on them. You loved him before and you can again. Go to counselling. Go out on dates. Dump the kids with some relatives and take a vacation. OPEN UP THE LINES OF COMMUNICATION.
You can do this. It will be worth it.
2006-11-22 09:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing. Something else has either caught your fancy and you're thinking of that person, even if it's all in your imagination. Ask yourself why you feel this way. If he truly still loves you, then he should go out of his way to fulfill your needs to make you feel that way again. What are those things?
2006-11-22 09:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by Shogun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u are bi polar, could be your own thought system that's making u feel u are no longer in love with him. if he is in love with u, count your lucky stars u have someone good. get some help, sometimes it's what we are telling ourselves that cause us to believe things that may or may not be true. i would say given your mental history, that u indeed are quite lucky to have an understanding hubby, even if u can't see it.
2006-11-23 14:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on dates. Court. Try again. Remember why you fell in love with him in the first place. Fall in love with him again.
2006-11-22 09:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try stop being SELFISH. Once you figure out how selfish you are you will have to love him for putting up with you for 8 years.
2006-11-22 09:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about not thinking about yourself and concentrate on all these kids you have. stick around for awhile til kids are grown. thats the right thing to do.
2006-11-22 09:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by just hanging around 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has changed you for you not to feel love any more? this is the source of your problem, if you know what the problem is it can be repaired
2006-11-22 09:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋