Have a feeling husband is cheating on me. When he leaves his underwear in the laundry, I see on the inside, front area, where his penis would be while wearing them, ***, it's not a lot, looks like pre-*** or what would be left on outside after having sex and putting underwear back on. ? is: can pre-*** come out during the day while a man has his erections that occur normall throughout the day? Ot is the only reason to find that, because he had sex / or masturbated and put the underwear back on? He sometimes uses his underwear to "clean off" after masturbating in bed and it's not that much, I know the difference.
2006-11-22 09:13:44 · 16 answers · asked by cabo2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take his underwear to a forensic lab for analysis!
2006-11-22 09:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men CAN precome just walking around, but it is a little unusual. Maybe if he is horny all day?
If he masturbates in the morning (a lot of guys do) and then throws on clothes some will dribble out unless he pees before he gets dressed.
It's pretty hard to cheat with underwear on. Unless you have some other reason to think he's cheating, it's likely one of your other ideas.
He could be (although I would recommend against it) be jacking off at work in the bathroom. I have heard about people who do that.
Not saying you might not have a problem here, but it might not be the problem you think it is.
2006-11-22 17:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It probably is precum. That alone will never, I repeat, never be a source for finding out if a guy is cheating on you.
Nor are the stains from women's panties confirmation on knowing if a woman's getting all juiced up for another man.
When there ISN'T something there from your husbands underwear... Then you may have cause for concern. Reason: He's unloading (manually or with a partner) without his underwear on... And there's no precum left to ooze out.
Instead of feeling insecure or possibly too overly curious or too quick to question or blame, you should be delighted that there's activity such as that down there.
Ummm... Rest assured, you're probably the cause for the lil'dabs in his underwear. :)
To the user: JustMe
I'll be 44-yrs-old Monday and to this day I still have precum (on occasion) in my underwear. Especially if I've NOT been sexually active for a few days.
Does "very, very vascular" mean anything to you? My doctor pinned that tag on me when I had a vasectomy several years ago.
Nurse or not, please check out your references before typing lost garble to others when they seek advice. -thanks
2006-11-22 17:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK....as one of the other people said, this is TMI. This situation is way too sensitive for you to try to get advice off the web from people who dont know you or your husband. I personally have not heard of any man over 15 yrs old having pre---- issues. And as someone in the healthcare profession I can tell you if your husband is still releasing pre-------- at this point in his life he may have a medical condition. So barring a medical condition, I fear the worse.
2006-11-22 17:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pre *** is possible if he had an erection during the day but if it is all the time start being cautious for shits and giggles buy him all new underware toss out all the old then start looking for pubic hair that does not match his.
2006-11-22 18:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by Fergie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trippin'? Of course guys can get it from arousal. At least it's in his pants. If thats all you got on your theory of him cheating, get real. It could be something serious, like a disease that's causing less sex between the two of you and uncontrollable release. I'dsay he needs to see a doctor, but you should just ask him about it. Why are you asking us?? He knows what he did or didn't do Ask HIM.
2006-11-22 17:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it COULD be just pre*** from normal day to day erections, but don't get your hopes up. if you husband says he's going out for a little bit and doesn't come back for a long time and then you notice the stains be a little worried, just keep your eyes open for unexplained hickeys and strachers or bite marks and numbers, until then don't accuse him
2006-11-22 17:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by Chrystal S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look for other signs of cheating as it may just be he has had "things" on his mind and do what is normal for horny people and that to masturbate!!
2006-11-22 17:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres a little too much information here. im the one linclined when i have a problem to confront it directly..youve heard the old saying about assume.
2006-11-22 17:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's semen. If he has to masturbate, then you may want to get more involved. If you are worried he may cheat & he masterbates, then you REALLY need to get sexually involved with your husband. Invest in his loyalty now, or loose it.
2006-11-22 17:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by nitr0bike 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋