well i am a 31 year old white female mother and wife, and i have a husbend 33 years old white with a black son, i cant help it that im a KKK member with a black son, i haven't told my husbend or my child but if i do it might destroy our family, i love my husbend, but not my son, he black and dirty and i need help not like going of on him and my injure his poor little soul, hes 14 so he might be able t fight back? what should i do, i just dont like black people?
2006-11-22 08:44:49 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should firmly attach yourself to the next cross that you burn and light yourself on fire.
We'll all bring wieners and marshmallows while we watch the show.
2006-11-22 08:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with most answers here but this is what I think?
Why did you get married to a white guy who has a ***** child if you really felt this strongly against the child?
If any one marries any one with other children from other relationship you love them unconditionaly just like you do with your partener!
But for you missy you married an man based on lies and love based on conditions,his child you dont love him or even like him!
What has this poor kid done to you beside be ***** and maybe dirty?
The child can be cleaned up and take a bath get his father to help but best of all I think you should be ashame of your self letting your husband think you are a nice person and doting wife/mother when you are not in any way in this situation.
Your life in this relationship is based on lies and hurt that can scar a child for life regardless of colour and Hygien...
You can love 1 and not the other it isnt fair.
As for your husband is he blinded by you and your hatred towards his child because if you feel this strongly I would imagine there would alot of tension in your home especially when the child is around?
14 year boys are usaly grotty and untidy depending what you mean by saying he is dirty? In what way is he?
Its just a stage they go through until there in there late teens sorry to say.
But if you are so racist then you must tell your husband the truth and leave your husband and his child so this man can find a lady who will love them both like he deserves and not this behavour from you!
OR-
Get counciling about how to over come your racim or fears and get help in how to become a better parent because you living a lie like this will end up coming out one way or another as they always do.
You marrried for better or worse remember and I aint saying this child is bad but you are and you need the help to either fix the problem you have with this child or leave the father and him to it.
because once a child is scared emotional you can sometimes never fix it.
2006-11-22 09:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope that this is not a true question, but if it is.......
I think that you have a real problem, 1st you knew that he had a black child before you married him. If you hate black so much then you should have never been involved with him. 2ND if the boy is 14 then he can fight and I would not suggest that you go of on him because I'm pretty sure that he would tear you up. 3rd I'm sure his mom and the rest of his family would have something to say. And last, I don't know if you ever herd the saying that once you have sex with someone you just had sex with everyone they had sex with. I bet that was not the only black women he slept with.(think about it)
2006-11-22 09:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you are really a KKK member.. you would never have married him, since he has a black son. So I honestly take this not being a serious question. But just incase you are, you need help in more ways than one. You should tell the father, then maybe he will see the real you and say goodbye...
2006-11-22 09:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by moviefan974 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's 14 years old then he was around when you started dating. Why would you get involved with a man who has a black child if you don't like black people? If your husband has a 1/2 black child and was involved with a black woman at some point, it will tear your family apart if you tell them. I have no doubt in that.
2006-11-22 08:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by Todd T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yoou need to think about what you are saying, and if you do then you'll know your own answer. Do you want people to misstreat you because you are different? Do you really think that everybody else on this Earth is here for you? How would you feel if your mother didn't love you, or even want to take care of you? What makes you think that it will be alright to hurt and kill people other than you. I think that you realy need to see a doctor to get some really strong meds, and may be even get thrown into jail to keep you away from people trying to make this world a better place. i'm sorry if my answer came on strong, but ethics are involved here.
2006-11-22 08:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where the hell was all this when you met this man? It's not like you didn't know he had a son, and it's not like you didn't know his sons race. It sounds like you are a sick and twisted person and your husband needs to know what kind of a monster he's married to. I cannot believe you have been able to hide your ignorance from him. How DARE you call this child your son and then speak about him the way you do. It's repulsive.
2006-11-22 08:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by bunny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn't be in the relationship. As a wife you accept your husband and his child. If you hate his child you hate half of your husband. How is it that your husband's child is dirty but your husband isn't? How did you manage to marry a man with a black child to begin with? I'm sure you were aware of the situation prior to marriage. If you are immature enough to not like your husband's child because of his race then maybe you shouldn't be getting married in the first place,
2006-11-22 08:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by errbyleerby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn that truth will set you free. First, you married your husband not knowing he had a black son? So, do you expect us to believe in the tooth fairy too? And then you expect to foist off on us the concept that black skin tells YOU and no one else about a person's worth. You need a life--not to mention a brain.
2006-11-22 09:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to try to help you (but keep in mind I don't approve of your beliefs).
Simply by having the guts to post this log, tells me that you are being a good parent for showing concern for your child. So that's a start. I'm assuming you love your husband. If so, you probably mad a vow, "for better and worse". This is the "worse" part of that vow. You obviously, need to tell your husband.
If you simply don't like black people. I strongly reccomend that you give your child up for adoption, this WILL cause friction down the road, unless you have an extreme change of heart in the VERY near future.
For the sake of your marriage and for the sake of your child, I wish you the best.
2006-11-22 08:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by Don R 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Why did you marry him in the first place if you knew he had a black child? Yes, you are a bad parent amongst other things.
2006-11-22 08:47:12 · answer #11 · answered by Gordie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋