2006-11-22 08:18:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
for a happy well adjusted gay man, it's better to be gay.
for a happy well adjusted straight man, it's better to be straight.
For those people who have been brain washed by 'organized religion, there is disgust, fear, and fear about being gay. If it weren't for the ignorance, there would be no prejudice toward gay people.
2006-11-22 08:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by reme_1 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My first thought was to answer this question immediately. But then I realized that I was stereotyping. I'm glad I read the other responses...it really doesn't matter what you claim to be. There are pros and cons to each...but it's better to be honest with yourself and are comfortable with yourself. As you know...you are either gay or straight...it's not your choice...it's more damaging to be gay and play straight than to just be a good gay man. The games are what screw you up. There are perfectly happy, well-adjusted men on both sides of the fence...there are also completely screwed up guys on both sides. I like N'sync's Lance Bass' statement... "I'm not just gay...I'm ALSO gay...it's a very small part of the man that I am." You don't see straight people going around classifying themselves as such. It's just a small part of who you are.
Lance Bass: "I want people to take away from this that being gay is a norm," Bass said. "That the stereotypes are out the window ... I've met so many people like me that it's really encouraged me. I call them the SAGs — the straight-acting gays. We're just normal, typical guys. I love to watch football and drink beer."
And if people ask him now if he's gay, Bass said he plans to respond, "No, I'm also gay." Meaning that it won't define him — just the part of himself that he doesn't have to hide anymore.
2006-11-22 08:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by tampablueman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a no-brainer. Cause it's best to be a straight guy, a dick:
when you're a straight guy - then girls want you.
And also gay guys want you.
but when you're a f-a-g - then only some of the other fags might like you..
Much better to be a typical straight dick of a guy. just a dick, that's all a man has to be .
2006-11-22 09:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the surface STRAIGHT!!!! In real life, you need a lot more variables to decide. Being gay is not like having leprosy or shingles.
2006-11-22 08:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way is better or worse, unless you are a good guy verses a bad guy, whether you are gay or straight. what type of morals do you have good ones? or bad ones? that is how you tell if they are better or not,not by what sex they like.
2006-11-22 08:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by yp_kim_hollister 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter their both equal in my mind and i think that some people are just to judgmentful and things are different in every situation
2006-11-22 09:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
too stereotypical...no mans life is identical..it depends on the situation.
2006-11-22 08:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's neither better or worse it's just diffident that's all.
2006-11-22 08:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by purplepickleater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a staright guy, and a gurls man ........
2006-11-22 08:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by simply_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋