I love my boyfriend so much but it hurts me at the same time being with him because we been together for so long until he told me something about his age.... he lied to me about his age...i'm 2years older than him and he should of told me earlier before i started likeing him but no he lied about his age i'm i told him before we went out i said '' ''Tell me everything about you with out you lieing to me....And when he told me i started to flip out..like do you understand where i'm comeing from he is playing to much games because he always be talking about good freaky sexy girls in front of me i be looking at him and say '' i'm your one and only B*tch ok don't be fronting with your ex
2006-11-22 08:13:48 · 18 answers · asked by Joylissa M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh wow, theres more here than just the age thing i think, if you truly love him then you need to discuss your feelings with him and if he loves you he will respect your feelings and try to sort out the issues. If he doesn't want to do that then he probably wasn't worth it, which will hurt but you cant be in a one sided relationship
2006-11-22 08:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was exactly the point I made to one of my exes. He lied to me about his age and it all went down hill from there. It turned out he couldn't tell the truth about anything. This may seem like a small lie but it is only the beginning. I tried to make it work and only wound up getting hurt more in the end.
2006-11-22 08:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin's Gurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sort of had the same problem. I told my boyfriend to tell me everything. One day I found out he liked another girl, and not from him. He was also looking at other girls and saying crap like, they are hot! That's why I broke up with him. You should do the same thing. It might hurt for a while, but when you do it, just be glad that it's over, and move on. You should call him, and have your friends right there with you, that way you will have support. Break up with him, and live your life to the fullest!!!
2006-11-22 08:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by .:Feliciano:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all he should respect your wishes and appreciate it when you say not to talk to another girl he should jsut be okay unless he is interested in her then other words tell him to leave her alone and concentrate on your relationship. About the age thing yeah he should of told you i dont understand why he would lie about his age but that shouldnt bother your relationship you just need to make it clear that there will be consequences if he lies again and that he should trust you enough to tell you anything.
2006-11-22 08:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by Harley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay age thing is not that big a deal he may have thought that you wouldn't like him if he was younger than you its a guy thing I think.
Anyhow sounds like you already answered you question about him you say he plays to many games and he is talking about his ex. If he can't stop looking to the past (the ex) then hes not ready for you.
2006-11-22 08:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Happy2bAlive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that the age difference is really the issue here i think its that he lied to you from the beginning. i dont think that he did this intentionally to hurt you or be dishonest, he probally just had an issue with you being older than him. as for the rest of your question if hes obsessed with other girls tell him to go for it and stop wasting your time
2006-11-22 10:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe his respect for you is stifled by his inability to be serious at any given time. Tell him how you feel, calmly and truthfully without making him put up a front and become hostile and defensive. Don't accuse him of anything, but just tell him your feelings. It will all blow over if you just know how to tell him how you feel in a polite, correct way.
2006-11-22 08:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by Liam Stone. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him.. you'll work things out! if its too much for you .. let him go! its easier to leave him now then it will be if you wait and leave him later! only you know how strong your relationship with him is.. if you think its worth fighting for then stay! if not cut the cord girl!! there are plenty of guys out there YOUR AGE!!! oh if he gets away with lieing once he'll try and do it again.. look out girl!!
2006-11-22 08:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by prettiness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) Age doesn't matter if it's only like 2 or 3 years younger
2.)Your bf has issues
2006-11-22 08:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by ~Blue Eyes~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to seriously think about your reationship with him. Its not worth staying with him if this is something that your not going to be able to get over. and ur going to hold a grudge against him over it..its just gunna make matters worse... besides.. if he lied about something like that... then do u think he could be capable of lieing to you again?
best of luck :)
2006-11-22 08:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by Brooke I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋