There is this girl at school and she thinks she all that! But the truth is that she's really ugly, no guys like her, and all her friends are nerd too! Me and my friends are in the popular group and we really wanna stick it in her head that she is NOT popular! HELP! how do I tell her to quit acting likes shes all that?
~HELPLESS~
2006-11-22 08:06:34 · 16 answers · asked by ♥lovellly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe if you helped her...gave her make-up advice or helped her with some boy problems...take her shopping for some cuter clothes!
if you try 2 be friends with her maybe you could see that she is actually a good person and is really fun to hang out with!
2006-11-22 08:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think your so much better than her? Maybe you and your friends agravate other people too. Im pretty sure that you do anyways. What is popular anyways? if this girl has friends and everyone seems to notice her why cant she run with your group since your in the popular group? Are you afraid people will like her better if you dont constantly point out her flaws? Work more on making yourself a better person and work less on tearing others down.
2006-11-22 16:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by Carguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it so important to you to try and make others feel inferior to you? You must be pretty and have a lot of attention from boys. So what? It almost sounds as though you are jealous of the way a girl can feel good about herself without looking the way you do. Should only the most attractive people have the right to high self-esteem? Don't make yourself ugly by being rude. If you're already nice looking on the outside, try to beautify your own personality.
2006-11-22 16:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by AMEWzing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 I think that's really rude and disrespectful to that person who are you to tell someone there a wannabe and stuck up when you are the exact same person
2 I think you have absolutely no right to say this because you are so "popular" in fact i think she has a right to do it beacuse you're popular and she is not so she deserves to act like that
3 you need a reality check !
2006-11-22 18:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by lolis202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously there is some odd reason you don't want her to act like you and your friends. Are the guys starting to like her? Are you getting jealous? Maybe, maybe not. I know that's annoying, but maybe she's popular with her own friends. Or maybe she's not even trying to be like you. Have some grace already. Why are you trying to make her feel inferior to you? Are you better than her? Little advice for you, you're not acting like you're better that her, so just leave her alone!
2006-11-22 16:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are sounding a bit disrespectful here, aren't you?
Sounds like to me that you may be a little bit stuck on yourself and what exactly you think it takes to be popular. Being popular is not going to get you where you really want to be in life and being hateful to others will only earn you no respect from the ones that know you do it.
She may not be as pretty as you are and she may not stand up to what you think she should but she has feelings and she deserves to be respected for who she is not what she looks like.
2006-11-22 16:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are the waannabe? From your explanation you sound like a complete little ****. I hope the "ugly" girl steals your boyfriend, ejects you from the "popular" group, and teaches you and your "popular" friends a serious lesson in humility. Maybe then you will become less of a ****.
2006-11-22 16:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by fiercedong 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are jealous of her. Why do you care what she thinks of herself?
I hate to break it to you, but you are proably peaking right now. 10 years from now you'll be 30 lbs overweight with 3 kids and a husband who doesn't come home most nights.....
The real world doesn't care about the crap you are "dealing" with now.
2006-11-22 16:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u ''popular'' then why care too much bout her...u soundz as if you have NO LIFE cuz the ''wannabe'' as u describe her is a wannabe right? so means u beter maybe? so why is it that little thing worries you??
I bet u jelous bout something 2 her?
Or maybe ur the wannabe?
2006-11-22 16:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you're conceded and a snob yourself. Just because you're popular doesn't mean crap. Yeeeea, I'm popular, good for you. You sound like you get off on proving people that you are better then them. You're sick and a ugly person.
2006-11-22 16:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by jay_p 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋