well okay .. so i'm having boyfriend trouble. The other day at school my boyfriend went to a couple of my friends & told them that i'd had sex with him and made up some really awful details. I hadn't even had sex with him, but yet he went to bragging about his made up story. I'm still upset that he'd do that & i have no idea what to do - help me?
2006-11-22 07:58:49 · 12 answers · asked by stAtE - 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dump this guy. Real love doesn't brag.........it respects the other person and keep it private.
2006-11-22 08:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has an ego problem. Young guys are usually insecure and are trying to find their place in this world and looking like a big shot to people they know is normally how they go about it.
I am glad to hear that you have not had sex with him, it shows that you have some respect for yourself. Don't be ashamed to save your self for that one special guy that will one day win your heart and want to spend the rest of his life with you. It is the most precious gift you will ever be able to give your husband. If you have not waited and have given your self to someone else, start now and change your life with the intention of being as pure as possible for your husband. Guys will tell you what ever you want to hear to get in your pants, don't buy it. Remember, guys give love to get sex and woman give sex to get love. Think about how you would want your daughter to behave if you were a mother. One day you probable be one.
2006-11-22 08:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by David T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is trying to fit in/impress his friends. I would confront him about it in a nice way, saying simply that he hurt your feelings by spreading rumors that are not true.
It's your option where to go from there. If he doesn't seem remorseful, I'd think about finding a boyfriend that's not worried about what other people think of him.
2006-11-22 08:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me twice.!!!!!.. a frat guy told his fraternity brothers that he "almost had me in the sack". COMPLETELY UNTRUE, i actually dont even know who he is, a friend of mine was at a mixer with her rugby team and that frat, and someone asked her about it.
and in high school my boyfriend at the time bragged to his football teammates that i had given him oral. his friend asked me about it and i told him the truth, and they called him out on in in the middle of the hallway. he was the "most popular" kid in school but he looked like a douchebag right then.
i would totally not let him have the satisfaction of thinking he pulled one over on you. im not one for drama, but you need to break up with him. he doesnt respect you AT ALL, no matter what he says to try to apologize. real guys DO NOT even think of lying about their girlfriends!
you need to confront him, and make it quick and to the point, dont even let him get a word in. thats horrible that he thinks he can play you like that. break up with him and NEVER speak to or about him again. move on cause then you will look like the mature, bigger person. what a loser he is!
2006-11-22 08:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by strawberryblond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these type of guys are d.ickzzzzz!!! i think you should tell him its over. whats the point or tlking to him that much. hes going to go back n tell everyone its not true n he was just lying then all of a sudden everyones gunna go "ok!". NO! i doubt it. n whats the point of yelling at him for saying something thats already said. you shouldve said something while he was telling the stupid story. he's dumb and DEFINETELY immature. im damn sure you can do sooo much better n find someone who will treat you better.
2006-11-22 08:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell him that was wrong and that it really hurt you and if he can't deal with it that your not ready then he can go find some ho bag that will. He doesn't sound like he cares and also sounds like he the type to do the deed and leave.
2006-11-22 08:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i hope i am not givin advice to some 13 yr old who has a "boyfriend" but if u r mature and really care 4 your boyfriend then u need to sit him down and tell him that wat he did was wring and that u care 4 him, but if he does that then u will have to break up
2006-11-22 08:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by Lucky#11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probley just makin up some story to show of to his friends. or hes just trying to make you mad enough to break up with him. if it was me i would ask him if he said that and why. then do what you think is right. keep him or leave him
hope i helped
2006-11-22 08:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by Karichelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him - sounds like hes using you and because you havent slept with him hes making up stories to try to impress people. you dont need him and please do not sleep with him hes an asshole and obviously wants you for one thing and your only a trophy on his arm to him
2006-11-22 08:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him... Ask him what the hell he thinks hez doing spreading lies about your intimate relationship... If he can't see how wrong he is dump him... he isn't worth it
2006-11-22 08:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by ksm_623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋