she's blond, super skinny, she always plays better than me in our football games (even though we're both just as good as each other), and somehow EVERYONE always likes her much better than me!!!!!!! i feel like im living in her shadow!!!!
2006-11-22 07:57:29 · 8 answers · asked by yankeegurl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Jealousy is natural as long as it doesn't get out of control and you try to compete and hurt your friend and when you do you will become evil friend to her.
An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind.
Buddha
564?—483 b.c.
2006-11-22 08:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Believe me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong. Why do you get the feeling that everyone likes her better? Are you a little bit shy, the only reason I could think of people paying more attention to her is if you dont speak up. Other then that I think everyones jealous of someone close to them. But really you have nothing to worry about. You are just as great as she is. And there are some people who like you better, then her. Maybe you just dont notice it. Smile. Lifes to short. Enjoy it.
2006-11-22 16:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by dayna-shannon@rogers.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost half of my friends are like dat. I was the IT girl until they started coming in thte picture now everyone just thinks i'm popular. Its not wrong to be jealous. Sometimes people get more attention but one day the ygonna get tired of seein her and you'll be the IT girl
2006-11-22 16:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by MRz.Nels0n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is normal. If you can't find a way to get out of her shadow you should get new friends so you don't feel like that.
2006-11-22 16:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. it's the exact same here. but, there are probably some times that your freind is jealous of you,2. so, just try to deal with it the best you can. hope it helps!!! :-)
2006-11-22 16:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay to be jealous. but start focusing on you. who cares about how many people like her? focus on YOUR other friends. not hers. dont compete. she can prob tell you are jealous and, she may like it?
2006-11-22 16:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its normal to be jelous but dont let that break you friendship, dont ever do that and just tell her how you feel and you guys might work it out.
2006-11-22 16:01:43 · answer #7 · answered by sweeper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for her and stay close and get her leftovers
2006-11-22 16:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋