I think my male friend is coming on to me. What should I do?

Question

I think I'm straight but never experimented, should I go for it?

Answer 1

Don't do anything. If hasn't got the guts to be direct, you shouldn't even worry about it- after having his advances ignored, he'll either step up or back down.

Now, if he pops the question and you're straight, tell him you just aren't into guys, he'll understand, I'm sure.

If you're gay and you're not attracted to him, tell you're very flattered but you value your friendship too much to risk ruining it by reducing it to something physical.

If you're both gay, just do what comes naturally. :)

Oh, and if you're a woman, just tell him to get lost. LOL

Answer 2

If you don't like it, I would give him 1 or 2 warnings for him to stop comming on you. I would even warn him that if he tries that again, the next time you will pop him one, so he knows the consequences if he tries it again. If he tries it a third time, then I would deck him, just becouse he did it and you gave him serveral warnings to stop. I don't think guys experience their sexuality, I think its only the females that do this. Ether your gay or your not. If you have sexual feelings or beat off to guys, then you are gay, but their's no need to declare right now. If you have sexual feelings for only woman, and not guys, then your probably not gay. If you have sexual feelings for both, then you are probably bi. It may takes some time to figure it all out, but you will in time. If your friend is gay and your not, don't stop being his friend, unless he keeps hitting on you. Most people that are gay, don't hit on straight guys becouse they know their straight, and their perfectly cool with that. I would also tell your friend that your not gay becouse he may not know that. Just remember its perfectly ok to be friends with someone that is gay as long as their not hitting on you or making sexual advances towards you. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

Flirt back...if you like him! lol

If you don't let him know now, before you end up hurting his feelings. I will testify to this though, I had a male friend once, who I told ALL my intimate and otherwise business too; he knew about the guys I slept with, alot of secrets, etc. Then, it became obvious he was attracted to me; I hated the idea, thought the was trippin, he was NOT what I was use to dating...

And guess what...I MARRIED HIM! LOL

It was like my eyes opened one day and I realized he was everything I needed and then some.

So, sometimes we have to get out of our own way and let what happens...happen! You never know...

Answer 4

Ask him, "are you hitting on me" if he is, then the rest is up to you. If you are comfortable with the idea of having a relationship or even just sex with him, then go for it. After all it's your decision, your body and you only have to answer to yourself.

Curiousity didn't kill the cat.

Answer 5

Assuming your straight.
Just tell him your straight and don't feel comfertable with him coming on to you if thats what he is doing.

Answer 6

Live the experience and then decide.

Answer 7

well if you're a guy - let him please you - he might give you a wonderful BJ and make you happy. Why not. guys are great to be with. Just try it and see how nice it is. Why do you want girls anyway????? You can dick him in his a-s-s and you will LOVE IT - guaranteed !!!!! You'll feel so proud of your manhood.

I say give it a shot - Nothing ventured - nothing gained. I envy you!!!!!

Answer 8

well assuming your straight.

Just wait, if it gets too far just simply say, im sorry, im not tryig to be mean, but im not gay and i dont feel comfortable doing this.

simple, do be all homophobic or anyting

Answer 9

Tell him you are not that kind of girl, but ask if he has a sister :) Good luck!

Answer 10

well first of all i would tell us if you are male or female.
if your thinking about it go for it...if you dont like it you dont have to do it again...at least you tried.