I was just wondering. If you respect these types of girls and if guys would marry them knowing that they did it. I mean, from my perspective, i would forgive and forget if they were a truly humble and good person in their heart. I know that they were obviously manipulated and persuaded by the alcohol and the abrasive,horn producers of the show. But, i would like to know what other people would do. They are humans, but are they stripped of their dignity when they have a minor (or major depending on perspective) lapse of judgment?
2006-11-22 07:37:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I would say have respect for them but I do not judge because you never know what there life was like and what made them make the decisions they made.
2006-11-22 07:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful Disaster 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Respect has nothing to do with it. I know this sounds callous, but in reality I don't really care about the face at the time. I probably wouldn't even remember them if I came across them in the future.
I assume however that you are asking about if I would date and/or marry any girl who had done that (for camera or not). As long as she stopped by the time we got together, probably. I don't consider it a matter of forgiveness or not, more along the lines of could I deal with my personal pride if others knew about it. I think I could. But if she were still doing it when we were together, I would consider that cheating and would leave her. I don't consider it a loss of her dignity if she doesn't consider it one (it is simply a matter of different moral codes), but if she does consider it a loss of dignity then I would simply consider it a mistake on her part. I've made enough of them, I don't see how I could attack her for doing the same.
2006-11-22 07:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did it ever occur to you that these girls couldn't give two hoots about your respect or lack thereof?
They are not bothering you. Don't buy the video. They are having fun and enjoying life. They and we don't need some blue nosed, neo-puritan carrying on about "respect"!
I am sure, when the time comes, they will find loving husbands who actually get a kick off they're wife's antics in her younger day and are proud they have a fun-loving, sensual and beautiful wife! And YOU can eat your heart out!
2006-11-22 08:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Those girls are not there to find husbands, they are there for attention and having a good time.
I really suggest of you're looking for a life partner you look elsewhere than a GGW video.
Also I agree with the first comment, they don't need you're forgiveness, you either accept them for who they are or what they've done in their younger and wild years or you just don't!
Now if a girl was your GF and she'd appear on one of these videos, then you'll need to either forgive her or not.
2006-11-22 07:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by Shelley S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respect anyone regardless of what they do. I have made my own mistakes and I'm sure some of them will look back and be a bit mortiefied. The better question is, "do they have respect for themselves?"
2006-11-22 08:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by Annieo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I have no respect for the gals or the producers or the banking backing up the finances!
2006-11-22 07:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Another way to look at it. Is that the girl you'd bring home to mama or spend your life with, the mother of your children?
I wouldn't want a mother or sister like that.
2006-11-22 07:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by robert m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have very little respect for them. I find that "party girls" are pretty shallow.
2006-11-22 07:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Stephan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but do they care? They obviously don't respect themselves...
2006-11-22 07:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by purplepartygirrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋