me and my fiance decided we would not try and get preg till after we get married now but im kind of upset he wants me to go on birth control but I dnt want to...what would you do???
2006-11-22 07:36:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
is it true after your on the pill is it easyer to concive???
2006-11-22 07:42:01 · update #1
Invest in the relationship before adding kids to the mix. It is a sweet time to be together and one you will look back on later.
Go dancing, see a movie, eat ice cream for dinner, just be together.
The richer the relationship the better you will be at parenting together.
2006-11-22 09:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe suggest using condoms. After all that is a form of birth control and when you are ready to try and have a baby then just stop using them. That way you don't have to worry about the effects that the pills (or whatever form you would use) would have on you. I think that would be the fair choice. Good Luck!
2006-11-22 12:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your fiance aren't going to start trying to have kids until you get married then why not go on birth control?? I understand where you're coming from though... Just don't get on Depo-Provera.. That takes a long time after you get off it to conceive. Just take the pill!! Good luck to you and your family.. Happy Thanksgiving
2006-11-22 07:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kat0312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound such as you have extraordinarily plenty resigned your self to this. you may nicely be feeling this way each time he is going to ensure the toddlers. Now with a toddler, that's greater. i do no longer see the prefer for him to stay the night there, the nursery can constantly take the toddler. when I had my youngsters, my hubby became into there in the time of the day, yet at night he went living house to get some sleep. Then returned the subsequent day.. i think of that's greater sensible. settle for the kind you experience now as commonplace yet while six months from now, you finally end up nevertheless feeling blue each and every of the time, then you definately might desire to take a reliable stressful seem at issues. Please are not getting pregnant till you're married and in a reliable place with this guy.
2016-10-04 06:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be wrong to deceive your fiance if you've already discussed the issue. And if you'd already agreed to wait, then why be upset about the birth control? Being on the pill STOPs you from conceiving, thats why it's called birth control.
2006-11-22 08:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until after you are married and ready to have children. Sometimes being on birth control pills can make it harder to conceive after you stop them, plus there are many side effects, both short and long term.
2006-11-22 10:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make him use birth control if he wants, but otherwise all you are going to do is mess up your hormones and then when you want to get pregnant, it will take time after getting off of BC to get your body straightened out again.
2006-11-22 07:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOLUTION: don't have sex until after you're married and then there will not be a need to use birth control OR for you to be upset or concerned about this!
2006-11-22 07:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by JayneDoe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is often harder to conceive after being onthe pill, as it messes with your natural cycles.
If your man is so set on birth control, why doesn't he take responsibility and use condoms?
2006-11-22 08:56:38 · answer #9 · answered by Fi B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk him and find out the reason of his idea. Maybe he is just scared and not ready to become a dad... My hubby had such a crazy idea before our marriage too. Thanks God he realized that there is nothing bad to have kids. We are trying nowadays. Good luck and happy Thanksgiving.
2006-11-22 07:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by Natasha S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋