i am into a relationship of about 7 months. my gf is very shy, innocent, friendly & caring. after 7 months of relatioinship, i tried to hold her hands.she took her hands away from me. this often hurts me! what is the reason behind this? ALSO, IF I hurt her somehow(directly or indirectly), she never tells me what i hv done wrong. whenever i ask her the reason, she says nothing.. why she is hiding things from me. she does not take any help from me but she takes help from my friend circle. i get hurt by all this. my best friend doesnt seem to understand me in this case, i feel that i am alone.....plz someone tell me whats the reason for this kind of behaviours of her..!! i know she loves me and trust me...
plz give serious answers only....i am suffering a lot. in the end, i am left isolated with tears in my eyes. nobody seems to understand me,,,!!! not even my family, my best friend and my girl friend
2006-11-22 07:34:20 · 7 answers · asked by broken_heart 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dump her.
2006-11-22 07:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by realstyles2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's ok.
Do you know all of her past. Sometimes it's in the past that effects someone. But if nothing happened in her past where she doesnt want to be touched then maybe she is really not into the relationship. I f she won't give you anything on why then why stay with the relationship if there is no honesty in the relationship? Sometimes arguing with the person can help. Sit her down be straight forward with her and if you have to then leave if she wont say anything and leaves you confused.
2006-11-23 14:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by ~*mwah*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats sad.... not i didnt a mean way though lik some ppl say it. but i think you should ask her if she REALLY does want this relationship to last that she should not be so shy put in more effort because it makes you sad that she isnt very affectionate in that way. she MIGHT be pushing you away cause shes lost interest. im not so sure since there are so many possibilities that could be the reason for this. keep your head up :]
you should definetly tlk to her though. noone can tell you how she really feels. only her. noone here is EXACTLY in the same positon as you. talk to her! *GOOD LUCK* & hope i kinda helped!
2006-11-22 07:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
toughen up m8, seriously, u are the man in the relatinship, quit being a dam wuss.
Ure 7 MONTHS IN THE RELATIONSHIP and u both cant hold hands?? i dont get it.
Break up with her if she doesnt stop her stuff.
when u ask her whats wrong and she says nothing, ask her "then why are u sad/complaining/annoyed by nothing?."...try to find out the problem or dump her.
2006-11-22 07:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by billjoio28 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why don't you ask her ,or ask whoever she talks to ,get an ans er some how and if you can't get ans er just apologize for whatever it is she has a problem with and you mite not ever haft to know just apologize for whatever i is you did the best advice you could get is to try to find out ,but always be forgiving and sorry
2006-11-22 07:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by kathryn j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a girl with this attitude is very disciplined and good to friend she does not say to she do not want to heart you tell her the truth and i am sure she will understand .
2006-11-22 07:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by samora 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am the same way.. maybe she doen't eant to go so fast... get to know her better then maybe bring up a conversation about it .. don't comfront her.. cuz that might risk her getting mad at u ..
2006-11-22 08:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by Nicolette M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋