How can I tell my friend that i'm bi?

Question

I'm 14 and i dont kno what to do

Answer 1

Don't rush yourself. Do it when you are mentally and emotionally ready. Then just sit your friend down and let them know you got something you want to tell them and say, "We're best friends. We're supposed to always be there for each other. Now if you're a real friend, you wouldn't judge me for this...." Then come out and say it.

Answer 2

Do girl things with her, dance with her and ask some questions but be careful not to ask wrong questions. When dancing with her bump into her some and see how she reacts Each time do a little more but go slow. Maybe have a sleep over and only have your bed so she has to sleep in same bed as u. I wish u the best. Go slow without getting her mad at u. Some questions to could ask is Do u think some other girl is cute. Seeing if she looks at other girls. Say something about some movie star u both know that my be bi and talk about her.
If u have any other questions as. My e-mail is [e-mail] I'm a 13 year old girl

Answer 3

well its not as easy everyone thinks. if you are shure about being bi then dont just come out with it. you could risk your friendship. instead give hints like maybe when you see a picture of a hot girl say, 'shes hott!' or someting along those lines. get her take on the whole bi thing. if she is accepting then just wait until the right time. make shure you are both in a good mood. don't just do it at your conveniance. remind her that you are the same person that you were the day before.
good luck.

Answer 4

Okay you people who say fourteen year olds don't have a sex life need to seriously wake up. People have sex younger than they used to and the majority of people I know, sadly enough, start trying to lose their virginity the second they enter their teenage years. From my experience teens have a hyperactive sex drive.

Now to answer your question. You are just a little bit younger than I was when I told my friends. If you have a cool group of friends like mine were then it shouldn't be a problem. Heck, one of my friends loves me now that she knows because we check out guys together. If not then keep it in until you can find some friends who will accept you. Unless you plan on dating your friends then it really shouldn't be that big of a problem.

Answer 5

Ok From experience you should just be open and honest just bring it up casual like ask a question about her or make a passing comment like I have this one friend who's bi and (fill in the blank) Just be honest as I said and if they can't accept you as you are then they aren't the best friend in the world.

Answer 6

we'll being 14, it may be a phase, it happens to many teenagers, you just have to wait to see when you can actually determine your sexuality. I kinda knew i was gay but i though it was maybe a phase but no, i actually am after a few more years. So if you really feel you are bi just grab your friend aside, tell her you have something to tell her and tell hew not to freak out or get scared. Say i found out im bi. see how your friend reacts, if he/she gets scared, angry, (or something negative) just say i wish you would be my friend for who i am and not what i prefer sexually, if your friend still feels angry (or whatever) give him/her a few days and approach him/her and try talking to him/her. if he or she still doesnt want to talk to you then i would consider that person not your friend anymore, especailly if she cant love you for who you are. If he/she accepts you for who you are, then thats great.

Best of luck!

Answer 7

If you feel it's time you told them, tell them. (him/her)
I'm bi. [**** anyone who says"oh, your fourteen-you dont know your sexuality]
I'm fourteen. ****, it doesnt make a difference.
*dont ya hate the word "kid"?
I came out to all my friend recently, mostly just slipping it into casual conversation.
Only 2 of my so-called friends had a prob. with it. one is getting used to it, the other, is homphobic, but she is dealing.
My girlfriend also came out to her friends, and they are okay with it.
you can start, asking their personal opinion on the matter:
"how do you feel about homosexuality, or bisexuals?"
if they say something like "well, i dont support it"
or "its not right"
say, "well, i was just wondering, becuase i'm bi. and i really hope you dont have a problem with me."
most of my friends reacted positively.
sayint they were glad i know who i amnow.
any i told about my girlfriend, were like "i'm so happy for you!"
thats how i told most of them.
but these are times when you find out who your real friends are.
if they dont seem to understand, u can try to explain it to them.
saying why you feel that way, or how u know you are.
there is this website, too. www.glaad.org:)

Answer 8

I would say this: You know (Her Name) we're best friends.. right?..(Her response is yes)...Well..I feel the most comfortable communicating with you..and well there is just something that I need to express to someone... I really need your support & friendship more then ever before... So her goes: I'm Bi . (and from there you should beable to handle the rest)

Answer 9

First off don't rush yourself i believe that you can honestly be sure of your sexuality but the people around you might now be prepared for you to come out to you at that age. Because not that you haven't matured but more because they haven't matured enough to understand what you are tellliing them and know how to accept it. I came out to my friends that I was gay when I was 16 and i think that was a perfect time to do it.

Answer 10

its possible to know if you are bi at this age,you may not be bi,just experimenting that could wear off later,but then again,most bi and gay people know long before age 14,simply tell her,if she has a problem,then it is her own.