Please help me
2006-11-22 07:21:51 · 12 answers · asked by dakillmaster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that if you both have deep romantic feelings you should. Being friends first and last makes for a stronger relationship. I married my best friend. :)
2006-11-22 07:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by ginyamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, me and my boyfriend were best mates for ages before we started seeing each other. We've been together 3 1/2 years now! I would say its the best basis for a good relationship to be honest! However, it depends on your feelings for each other. It could ruin the friendship if you're not serious about each other, because there's probably no going back! If you love her, then go for it! Theres nothing better than having a boyf/girlf as your best friend! :-)
2006-11-22 23:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by Biznitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when best friends take the relationship further they potentially can end up, if they breakup never speaking to each again thus throwing away a friendship that might have been longer. Speak to your friend, both of you have to make the joint decision that even if the relationship turns sour you will at least continue the friendship; and if this isn't possible you and her will have to decide if this risk is worth taking.
2006-11-22 07:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by dymps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel about each other... The plus side to this is that you already know each other very well. The minus is that if anything happens between you and you break up, it might make your friendship awkward. Or maybe your friendship just won't exist at all. It's happened to me, and it's not fun. Until you're sure that she likes you, I would just let it be friends. At least you get to be with her all the time.
2006-11-22 08:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mia C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both want to go out together then its fine, but you should make a pact that if you break up w/ her that you remain friends with eachother. That way you will not worry about putting your friendship on the line. Hope that helps! :)
2006-11-22 07:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by pinkpearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships that start out as friends are always better than those that don't. I'd go for it. If she is willing, too.... it's likely to be the best thing that ever happened to you.
2006-11-22 07:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let a girl help as me ask her out on a date then ask her if she has a bf a and if not ask her if she want one if so act like you have a friend and desrib you but act like ita friend if she said call then you say your talking to him but if she has a boyfriend just stay friends trust me it work a boy did the same thing to me
2006-11-22 07:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by dollface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same boat .but i am not dating her because she is in a relationship with me friend . but when i told her i like her very much , or more then a friend she said that i dont want us to lose our friendship . so it depends on if she likes you and would want to go out with you
2006-11-22 10:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by imgladtobecuban 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its a great idea because nothing will be ackward between u 2, your just one step closer and u probably have so much in common already so its perfectly fine
2006-11-22 07:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by Cutie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my friend asked me to and i told her not to uless she really thought about it. she decided not to because if something went wrong it would totally ruin there freindship. so i say the same to you!!
hope i helped
2006-11-22 08:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by Karichelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋