18 and flat chested?

Question

I have never been more depressed in my life... I'm 18 and started my period at 15 and a half and i'm still flat chested.. ok im not completely flat.. just little pointy boobs, i look like a 12yr old. Am i normal? i weigh 45kg and im 1m63, my doctor told me im underweight rencently... im even on the pill which helped my boobs, i have to wear padded bras and i feel as if i'm cheating , i even have a boyfriend who ive been with almost two yrs who loves me to bits and doesnt understand why i'm so depressed... but again he only sees me wearing padded bras... my mum and aunts all have size C and biggerrr...and its meant to be hereditary
does anyone have the same problem? or any advice?
Thanks so much

Answer 1

Being underweight can affect that, just as when someone loses weight, the first thing to go are your boobs! I don't think there is anything wrong with you. At 18, you are still growing. You don't want huge boobs anyway - they just get in the way! Give yourself a few years to finish growing and see what happens. In the meantime, don't worry about it. Trust me, there are worse problems! p.s. They will NOT grow with regular sex - the person who said that is wrong! And puberty is not brought on by your weight either. Duh.

Answer 2

I know where you are coming from...just like you, I am also petite in height, weight and breast size. Growing up I was always self concious about what others think. Now that I am 27, I have learned to love myself and my small boobs. With time, you'll learn that there is much more to a person than physical attributes....there is compassion, confidence, a sense a humor, a positive outlook on life, etc. If you are self concious about whether or not guys will think you are sexy, let me tell you this, even with small boobs, I'm a man magnet...from ugly ducklings to yummy babes....because I have a good personality. Huge boobs may get the initial attention from men, but its a womans personality that really gets them interested. Trust me, after having dealt with men of all types, if a man is only interested in you due to looks or big @ss boobs, he is extremely shallow and is only interested in f-cking you. Not all men are shallow scum...when a man gets to know your personality, he will see past the small boobs and will love the whole you. Would you not agree that a man can still be attractive even if, lets say, he is a little short or a little balding?True we can't wear certain Victoria Secret bras, but we can wear sexy tank/undie sets or certain baby doll outfits, nothing like a whip cream bra :)

Answer 3

Girl I wish I had your problem. Mine are so big that it is all people see when they look at me. In high school I was an honor student, now i'm a nurse at a doctors office. and all people see is boobs. no one thinks that i have a brain. and the attention i get from guys is bad. they just like the boobs, not me. from a nurse point of view, they will come in time, don't worry

Answer 4

You're still young, and there's still time for your boobs to grow. Don't despair....the older you get, the bigger they may get also. And if you were to get pregnant...I guarantee your boobs will grow. Don't be self conscious, it's not healthy. Just be happy with what you have...and in a few years if you're still having these feelings...then perhaps you can do something else about it.

Answer 5

Oh, sweetheart, don't be sad, be happy with what you've got. If you think that men care, well, they don't. You have had your man for quite sometime and obviously he loves you for who you are. My mother has a huge rack and I'm small too, but I got @ss for weeks and my man loves all of me- he'd rather that I have a great butt than big boobs. Don't worry about it, it's not as big of a deal as you think.

Answer 6

Breast enhancement is becoming very fashionable amongst the younger set, and it's safer, too. You are approaching the age when you will be fully grown, so it makes sense for you to consider doing something like this.

I believe a cosmetic change for a person of your age, can be a good thing. It will improve your self esteem and confidence in yourself. It will improve your physical appearance, and your popularity as well. Just remember this bit of advice: For every problem you solve, often time you create two more!

Answer 7

Don't worry about it, boobs are just a big hype. I find it nice to see a woman with small boobs.

Answer 8

Everyone in my family got big boobs after having children. They were all As and now they are Cs or Ds so that might happen with you too.

Answer 9

oh my god dude.. dont be so dipressed about that crap.. theres nothing to be ashamed of or sad about.. thats totally normal.. you are just a small girl thats all.. you shouldnt do all these things to make your boobies look bigger.. and you should not even give a *** about what people think of you... chill out relax.. having big boobs isnt all that great.. either.. i mean im a b 36 and i think thats alright.. they are pretty small on me cos im like and alright size.. but i can care less. and my boyfriend makes me feel better about it too.. he says that they are perfect.. and just let your boyfriend know how you feel.. and if he begins to tell you that they are too small.. then that mother fuker is shallow and u need to get rid of him.. but dont care wat people think of you honestly.. just be urself.. and *** everyone else..

Answer 10

Women's breasts still grow until they're 22 so you've got a few years. And, when women get pregnant, or gain weight, their breasts tend to get bigger too. Also, if you eat a lot of chicken, or other foods with a lot of estrogens in them, you will tend to get bigger breasts.

In any case, you should learn to love yourself as you are. You said your boyfriend "loves you to bits" so your A cups don't bother him, why should they bother you?