I had a very good friend and she has tripped over the edge. Unfortunatly she also married my brother so I cant just lose her. Although it sure would be nice. She has turned into a real trallop! Cheat! Liar! Sneak! What makes someone who was so good turn so awful! She is really a nutcase and is makeing my brother a nutcase too...
2006-11-22 06:53:56 · 8 answers · asked by bbmk333 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would let your brother deal with her since you don't want her to come between you two. That could potentially happen if you confront her directly and your brother picks her side. Talk to him about what he is going to do about his wretched wife. In answer to your other question people do sometimes change for the worse but usually they were bad to begin with and just hid it until they were comfortably ensconced.
2006-11-22 07:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it seems it is either a phase she will pass through, a hard time in her life, or, maybe she has snapped. its possible that she has put up with bullsh*t for too long. always playing the good cop. always the nice guy.
but nice guys finish last, and eventually that weak person you took advantage of realizes they have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.
and then that person starts a club
and the first rule of this club, is you dont talk about this club.
and the second rule of this club, is you dont talk about this club...
most likely she has become stressed out, give her space, and get off her case. its her life, and its your brothers own choice to be with her.
dont make your life a living hell worrying about the feelings of your brother. he is a grown man. he can worry about himself.
if you worry too much about them, you will hurt yourself and your family because you are not there for them.
also, ALOT of wives are b*tchy. its just in the female genes i guess. and women are not very rational thinkers, they have too many emotions, and little control of them.
maybe you should be talking to your friend, listening to her problems so she can feel better about herself instead of TRYING TO DROP HER LIKE AN EMPTY COFFEE CUP.
IS THAT HOW YOUR FRIENDS should view themselves?
just a commodity to be tossed away when they stop gratifying you?
i hope you read all that, and that im wrong about you.
good luck.
2006-11-22 07:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uggggg....I hate it when this happens....It is like a two-fer, but in reverse!!! I feel for you, but it is your brother that needs your love ant attention now. Let him know you are there for him, and that his love you and yours for him are the most important thing in your life!!!
Huggs and Kisses,,,
Lonnie
2006-11-22 06:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by lonnie_m_d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say stay out of it before you start stressing too much... leave it to your brother to handle his wife. you dont want to create a rift between you and your bro.
2006-11-22 06:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and talk some sense into her and into your brother to talk to her.
2006-11-22 06:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by NikoleUniQue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend married is a friend lost..... u lost ur best friend and now she is ur sister in law.
2006-11-22 07:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by broken_heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talk to him...
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2006-11-22 06:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away
2006-11-22 06:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋