2006-11-22 06:47:30 · 13 answers · asked by bmwx5 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2006-11-22 06:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you're able to desire to tell them ASAP? and don't pay attention to the guy who wrote "how are you able to understand you're gay...you're too youthful...blah, blah, blah, blah..." and that this archives "could devastate your dad and mom." ok, looking on how your dad and mom sense approximately gays in many circumstances, that final element could ensue. i don't think of you have been too youthful to realize you have been gay at 11, I knew whilst i grew to become into 5. it particularly is not that unusual. Heterosexual childrens are relationship via 13, meaning their charm started long formerly that age, and no-one asks "nicely, how do you recognize which you're rapidly? Did somebody molest you?" So recover from it, human beings. yet decrease back to the question. you do not could desire to tell your dad and mom something good now, a minimum of no reason that i can think of of. Take issues slowly, improve the undertaking of gays, like television exhibits that characteristic gay characters like "gruesome Betty" and spot how they react. in the event that they react badly, do not tell THEM. 13 isn't the age to start attempting to shield your self and a few dad and mom have thrown their childrens out into the line after looking out that they've been gay. So take it slowly and proceed with warning.
2016-12-29 08:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have friends who are gay too. Tell him to not be too fast into finding a "mate" let him get a little older and let his harmones settle. No affence but he's a little young to find a "mate". If you mean "mate" by boyfriend they'res no problem with him finding a boyfriend, it's natural to be inlove you shouldnt hold yourself back because your sexuality. hope i helped
2006-11-22 06:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by lola bulregard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay hugh? yea well i found out i was gay when fourteen, tell im to wait a little longer and no being gay is not a choice you are or arnt. give hime time,experiment his sexuality a bit,see what happens. then again he may not be sure yet so dont doubt it.
2006-11-22 12:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by drake b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it and if he comes on to you tel him plain out if it happens again you wont be he`s friend.i had a friend the same way i told her that and she said ok and 5 years later still friends and has never said anything again,just leave there dating up to them.
2006-11-22 06:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by spring l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest telling him that a bloody thirteen-year-old can't decide his sexuality, let alone be ready to be with anyone. Add a good whack behind the head for extra measure.
2006-11-22 06:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by Belie 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are thirteen have a ball(s). If you are an adult, then tell the young friend to find playmates his or her own age.
2006-11-22 06:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is young, he needs to find his own mate....
2006-11-22 07:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's gay at 13? It's a CHOICE both for lifestyle and maturity...and sex at that age....hetero or homo is not a good idea for that age mentality. Drop the friend before you get labeled.
2006-11-22 06:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by Kimber 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
If you are close to his age - then I would do it. I love younger guys. Mmmmmmmmm. Yummy !!!!!
2006-11-22 06:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋