My fiancee has an ex-girlfriend that he broke up with exactly a year ago, and till this day wont leave him (and now me) alone.It all started the beginning of this year.My fiancee and I were best friends before falling into the dating scene.So when I was his bestfriend,I saw him have to deal with his psycho ex-girlfriend.She would stalk him,show up at his house un-announced,drive by his home at wee hours of the night,go thru his information,and call all his friends (including me past february).He has changed his phone number 4 times, changed jobs,she still doesn't leave him alone.This past september she came to his house,broke into his truck that was park in his driveway,took the garage opener,opened the garaged,and keyed all 4 of his cars,his motorcycle,not to mention my car. And she tried to spell "b-i-t-c-*"but keyed it wrong.The police wont do nething about it b/c we did not physically see her do it.He filed a restrainging order,she countered with one.
2006-11-22 06:42:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There's lots & lots of those psycho ex-girlfriends out there ... and my man has one of them too ... the only thing that has worked with her is ignoring everything she does ... the phone calls, the texts at 2, 3, 4 in the morning, the dead rabbits on my front porch .. yeah crazy ex-girlfriends ... me & my man were best friends like you & your guy I had to see him go through so much crap with her ... in the beginning she had me going ... talking sh*t to her, worried about her & what she was going to do next ... calling the police .. etc .. the more attention we showed her the more crap would happen to us ... the more we ignored her the less she came around ... every now & then we'll get a really mean text about me & my daughter but I try not to let them get to me ... try doing everything possible you can legally & ignore her ... hard but possible ... !
2006-11-22 06:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 16:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Emery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is wait it out. Better yet, pay some guys to ask her out on dates, maybe if her mind is on a new one she'll leave your fiance alone. And with both restraining orders in place, you can definitely have her arrested. Also, put up some cameras around your place, and get an alarm system on the vehicles as well as garage. Do all you can to protect yourselves, she does sound off the deep end so be careful above all.
2006-11-22 06:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choices:
Get an order of protection and get the police involved.
Move.
Get an unlisted number.
If she has a restraining order then it is appropriate to keep your distance. If he has 4 vehicles, then he should get security cameras.
File an insurance claim and let the insurance company pursue her.
2006-11-22 06:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's my opinion that he's still talking to her. How else would she have the numbers. I think you should leave him until she goes away. Save yourself the heartbreak. I mean exes for a year and she's still psychoing out? Is she on drugs? You should get the scoup from her, call her and find out what her deal is. I bet money he was still seeing her...
2006-11-22 06:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by Cabbage 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. Its about all you can do. Don't let her know it bothers you. Don't contact her, to let her know your mad. Just totally ignore you she will get tired and go away when she stops getting a recation.
Changed a phone number 4 times. Can you say unlisted. This doesn't make since. Someone is calling her and telling her. Changed jobs how would she know. Someone is still talking to her. You have to stop letting it bug you and don't let know it does.
2006-11-22 06:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by rdwngfever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she definately crossed the line when she key'd your cars. you need to buy a video camera ( a home servalence camera) and catch her in the action. Camera's rn't too expensive, and you can probably get one for a very low price. If you ever cath her vandalizing your property, you can sue and get thousands. You need to take action now, beacuse things will only get worse. Ive seen x-boyfriends/girlfriends go from stalking, to vandilizing, to threatning with murder. Who knows what she might do next? take action before its too late!
2006-11-22 06:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by spicyangel8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does she be able to get into his information, or into his digital mail? won't be able to secure practices measures be put in place? replace his digital mail. How does she get his telephone type? Get an unlisted type. i might submit secure practices cameras around the living house, and so on., so which you would be able to tape her utilizing by -- that's observed as stalking and there are rules against it, yet you have have been given to get it on tape, or get eye witnesses prepared to testify to what they observed. looking on how plenty money you have, you should to hire an investigator to persist along with her to rfile her stalking activities.
2016-10-04 06:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, she sounds just like a psycho that I knew. I feel sorry for you. You have to catch her doing something. Maybe you need to get some other people involved so you have witnesses and set her up to screw herself over.
2006-11-22 06:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get Your Ex Back Tonight - http://tinyurl.com/HA9vRPbpFh
2015-09-28 15:40:19 · answer #10 · answered by Rubin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋