I came home from work the other day and found that my husband of five years had purchased a Norelco Body Groom for men out of the blue, without saying anything to me. At the time, he said he purchased it for me (he likes to shave me...down there). So, I didn't think too much about it. But then today, I came home from work and he had used it to shave himself!
Now it doesn't bother me so much that he did it. But just the fact that it came so completely out of the blue. I have always known he has a bit more of a wild streak in him than I do. But he has never done anything like that before or even said anything about it to me.
Do I need to be concerned? What do you think?
2006-11-22 06:33:26 · 20 answers · asked by Sexual Being Too 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We are in our 30's and he has always taken good care of himself. So, that is nothing new.
And to answer one other question, no I have not seen "American Wedding." But I take it the movie has something to do with this subject, huh? Maybe I should rent it tonight! ;)
2006-11-22 06:53:09 · update #1
have you not seen American Wedding??? Case closed, dont worry about it....
2006-11-22 06:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by rufnready 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No need to be concerned. Enjoy the new look and play nice with him. I would love for my husband to try new things. I recently shaved myself down there for him completely smooth as a baby's bottom - and I got nothing - not even a second look. WOW. Anyway - to answer your question - if you are concerned you should really just talk it through with your husband without being nasty or argumentative. Explain to him exactly how you feel and what you would like to do with him and his knew looks.
Good Luck and God Bless!
Have a Happy Thanksgiving!
2006-11-22 06:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by Just asking 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have never mentioned that you would like him to do this...and if he has not watched recent show mentioning this there may be cause to be concerned.
It is unlikely that another man said hey because I shave there it feels better for me with sex, so unless he read it someplace.....?
Psychologically speaking atypical behavior is one of the signs of possible affair. But there are SO many more that if this is the only, I wouldn't worry.
Think about if he talks about someone he knows (female) more than usual. Even if it is in a negative way. That is a sure sign.
Other than that...if nothing else strikes you as out of place ENJOY!!! Hair is gross.
2006-11-22 07:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing to be concerned about alot of guys shave and it is completely normal professional swimmers shave ther whole body so the hairs wont slow them down same with with procyclists. Your guy may just be experimenting. Maybe he is
not as well-endowed as you may think and heard alot of porn stars shave to enhance the size of there johnson anyways do not worry.
2006-11-22 07:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think you have a thing in the world to worry about at all. Maybe he is just trying to put more spice in the married life. I have done some things that I have not done before just to see what he will do. To each is there own. By him not ell you about what he was going to do, he either wanted to surprise you with it or was to embarrassed to tell you he was going to do it. I think you are fine with what he did, just go with the flow.
2006-11-22 07:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wild streak in him might be a message to you he want something new in your relationship! Get a brazil wax and legs wax and new lingerine and get some new ideas of sexual pleasures and positions and have some fun. Explore new things in life and make your relationship more exciting with him!
2006-11-22 06:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is he self conscious about his body hair? Maybe he is embarrassed by being hairy? Talk to him, ask him why he did it. There is of course the chance that he has done it for someone else, but don't jump to that conclusion, see what he has to say first...
2006-11-22 06:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when men all of a sudden start changing their appearance and taking care of themselves it means they are cheating. Dont jump to conclusions though. Maybe he's just feeling older and wants to spruce himself up a bit. I would start keeping a close eye and checking on things. If its there you will find it. Just dont let him know you suspect anything, he will cover his tracks better and make it harder for you to find something.
2006-11-22 06:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why does your husband have to ask permission from you to shave his body parts? he is just experimenting. How old is he ? oh oh !.You really have to be concerned!
2006-11-22 06:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just keep a closer eye on him. He might want to try something new. Hopefully, it is with you. Often our minds are more sneaky than our husbands. ;) Good luck!
2006-11-22 06:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by Dyan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get concerned !!
Be happy , you have a playful husband .
My husband does some things too .
I just laugh about it , and he loves it when I have fun .
2006-11-22 06:40:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋