Please no nasty talk! Today here at work a female co worker of mine who is 27 and of average weight asked me what it meant when a guy told her after sex that she had a "fat **ssy". But he was just making a comment not being hateful. I have been married for 15 years and have only been with my husband so my sexual experience is limited. I can not ask my husband b/c he would ask me which girl at work asked that and it will just start a whole big embarresing situatuin for her. Needless to say she took his comment as a bad thing as if he was saying she is fat, which she is not. Anyone know what this guy is referring too? He is calling her all the time so what's up?????
2006-11-22 06:29:54 · 13 answers · asked by brandi from texas 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The message is not a negative one! The guy was actually complimenting her! When a guy says you have a fat Pu$$y, it's a very good thing! Guys tell me that all the time! It means that her private part, her outter lips (labia) is a bigger size than usual. that's why he said that! He's not calling her fat or anything! It's a very good thing! I like it when guys think it's fat! The average size of a Pu$$y is just average, but when you have a nice fat juicy one...you should feel special! :-) She should take that as a compliment, not an insult!
2006-11-22 06:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by CTargrl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are many criticisms on this, which was of a lot of discussions and debates in the past under the guise of psychology. In fact it is a psychological part as expressed by Sigmund Freud, Karl Popper, Jacques Lacan, Albert Ellis, Alfred Kinsey, Betty friedan and so on, and more than physical importance. However, the natural tendency in individual is different - for a male regarding his sex organs and for a female hers. My finding is that the individual psychology is distinctive more than general tendencies as man lives in moments as well as in time. If obsession means "compulsive preoccupation with a fixed idea or an unwanted feeling or emotion, often accompanied by symptoms of anxiety", guys in general, to my experience, does not have. It could be possible only if a guy bred and lived alone under strict control of parents or others. You mean more that whether the size and length more than average or less, obsession remains in a man is incorrect. I can say about my life and my physique, as a visible example, which any one or earth would appreciate, but when a policy or principle is adopted in life, the things would be different. When a marriage proposal came from my elders, I had very frankly told them to select the most poor, but the most civilized one. Civilization, I meant, the idea about life and its enjoyments other than the eagerness to possess everything or the ego to assess others. As a matter of fact, I am always irritated by the seductive approach of gals, I love the natural harmonious relationship - the feeling of myself more than the feeling of "mine", the true sincerity.
2016-03-29 05:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not A Bad Thing Pu$$y Lips Are Plumper Thats All
2006-11-22 07:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by bob r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just mean that she does have some extra fat padding in that area, which is not a bad thing. If he still calls her, I am sure it was not a negative thing. He could of also meant PHAT, meaning 'Pretty Hot and Tempting', which is also a good thing. Honestly, I prefer both to a skinny one.
2006-11-22 06:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by lignebur72 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that her labia (outer lips) are plump. Not a bad thing i prefer plum p*ssy and so do most of the guys i know. Tell her not to take it in a bad way. If hes calling her all the time then he liked it too.
2006-11-22 06:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by 1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could have ment Phat or talking about her outer lips being meater than average which I personally find attractive. Either way he seems to lke her fat ***** because he is still calling her.
2006-11-22 06:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be several things: (1) He may be saying that she appears to have extra body fat in that area, (2) He may be saying her vaginal area in general appears to be larger than that of other girls he has been with, or (3) He may be saying that she's loose. Any way you slice it, the message is probably negative.
2006-11-22 06:33:47 · answer #7 · answered by sarge927 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might have been a complement like fat as in "phat" which means cool or good
2006-11-22 06:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anyone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup, the area right above does store fat!!
Obviously I don't knwo what hers looks liek, buuuttt it does exist & plastic surgeons do provide liposuction to make it flat again!
2006-11-22 06:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In today's lingo, Phat means good. He must've enjoyed himself to say that.
2006-11-22 07:48:49 · answer #10 · answered by STONE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋