Of course you love him! He just had problem with maintain control over you. Go back and treat him like the king he should be treated like.
2006-11-22 06:11:50
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answered by Anonymous
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He is hoping that you have the gift of forgivenss and unconditional love. He is also trying to salvage his family for his child sake! Eventually, once he sees that your love have found someone else, he will move on, and all the nagging that you did, you will see the changes he made in another relationship and he is the father of your child, so he can not just go away! You guys have to find a way to get along and make what it is best for the child, dating with your child around is not a good thing to do, your family already splited up, another attachment will just damage your child emotional being, keep your dating personal and away from your child, even let your child spend time with her dad, while you are on a date and spending time with other men. Look in the best interest of your child. She already have been punished through the broken relationship between her mom and dad and divorce hurts kids!
2006-11-22 06:19:12
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answer #2
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answered by ourjacobdavid 4
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If he was unfaithful to you, you have a legitimate reason for having divorced him. But if that man has never cheated, you are completely in the wrong.
I don't think I like the sound of this, and your attitude. You have omitted the reasons for the divorce, and I suspect some real selfishness here.
It's natural for him to want to be back with you, and there is a BOND that is lasting between a husband and wife. A marriage is supposed to be forever.
I don't expect liberals to understand a word of this.
2006-11-22 06:12:54
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answered by Anonymous
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get a restraining order. you can have scheduled call times for him to speak to your daughter. such as between 7:00-7:30. any other time he should not be calling you. and block his texts. this is harrassment.
i believe it is possible he may be sorry for whatever it is that he did, but if you don't love him, you can't do anything about that. and obviously there is nothing he can do about it either.
2006-11-22 06:18:15
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answer #4
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answered by Bella 5
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I would ignore the text messages and not respond - I would only speak to him when it's in context to your daughter - other then that I would completely block calls and emails and avoid him at all costs.
2006-11-22 06:14:49
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answer #5
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answered by Rachel 7
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As the ex who used to call, its his way of grieveing. Continue to ignore his calls, keep your distance, and don't give him a slight thought that you may want him back and eventually he will move on.
Some people it takes more time than others to move on but he will get the picture one day.
2006-11-22 06:19:38
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answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4
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Go to the police and get an order of protection, also explain to them the situation regarding his child.
2006-11-22 06:21:41
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answered by KerryAnn 4
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That is harassment.Get another number and let him have your telephone number for your daughter's sake but not your cellphone number.Most men like to display their power over women by beating and terrorizing their wives and denying themselves of their love for these women.now you are wiser and he can't have that power again and so he wants you back.tell him to stop it or get a restraining order on him...simple.he must learn to deal with his attitude and not you to deal with it even though you are apart.
2006-11-22 06:19:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Tell him how you feel and that you wish to not be with him again. Blatently to his face though.
The only thing that slightly annoys me is how you reference the daughter that you two share as your own. Signified by the "my daughter", rather than "our daughter".
Well anyways, ignoring his phone calls wont improve the situation. I'm certain that he will quit it if you tell him face-to-face AND be sure to be as nasty and grouchy as possible towards him ;)
2006-11-22 06:15:13
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answered by Ortensia 3
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It became complicated to no longer be extreme as quickly as I examine your posting. i will attempt to no longer be extreme of you or your husband, so right here is going.... i choose some extra counsel till now i will remark on your issue. a million. Why did he marry you if nonetheless enjoyed this different different woman? 2. Why did he permit you recognize which you have been his 2nd determination? What could desire to he have was hoping to have gained from such an admission? 3. Why did you marry him, below those circumstances? Please do no longer say you like him--this is by no ability sufficient reason to get married. 4. Whose theory became it to flow after sixteen years of marriage to the place his ex-lady chum lived? His? if so, what do you're making of that? 5. Do you think of there could desire to be a possbility that he became in contact with this different woman all alongside? 6. Why is he so indecisive approximately getting a divorce or no longer? He turn flops in this like loopy. i'm hoping that each and all the above preliminary questions will help you to respond to the main ones. i'm no longer asking those questions for any reason different than that might assist you concentration your thinking. 7. what's it which you rather prefer to do? it style of feels to me which you have no longer been in a position to respond to that query. 8. Why do you leave the determination-making approximately getting a divorce so thoroughly as much as him? Why do no longer you come back to a style what you prefer to do? Now, I surely have some comments. So he would not love you yet he pities you. Sorry, yet i'm unlikely to telephone the Pope to propose him for sainthood. His remark approximately pity is the responsible experience of right and incorrect of an emotional weasel. Love isn't sufficient to maintain a marriage at the same time--no longer whilst your husband has been humiliating you, making a fool of you, and employing you or two decades. Why do you care if he's loose with yet another woman? If she needs a guy who will cheat and deceive his spouse, and not have the braveness to break up, and not love her sufficient to set himself loose to marry her, then i think much extra sorry for her than I do for you. i'm no longer your husband, and that i do no longer love you. it rather is nice for ME to pity you, yet i can not even try this except you're taking duty on your person happiness and make a call that works for you.
2016-10-17 09:44:27
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answered by ? 4
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