If your wife cheat once will she ever stop?

Answer 1

If the situation changes that caused her to cheat in the first place, then there is a good likelihood that she will not cheat again. If it doesn't, then very likely, she will. It all depends on her reason for cheating in the first place. Work on the marriage, and the cheating will stop!

Answer 2

It's not a yes or no situation, so anyone that tells you a flat out yes or a flat out no should pretty much be ignored. It depends on a lot of circumstances. Such as ...

Had she cheated before that? Does she have a history of dishonesty?

What were the circumstances involved? Was this a bad judgement situation, or a period of lying to cover her tracks while planning it?

What type of relationship do you have? Are you relatively happy, is there a loss of trust on both sides or just one?

I don't want answers, I want you to answer them yourself. That's the only way you'll ever find the answer to your own question.

I'll tell you this. I know some women that cheat for fun, and for the sake of attention. I know of other women who are terribly insecure and fall into that situation believing the other person cared about them. Then there are other women who lose their good judgement and suffer guilt .. and learn from their mistakes.

It depends on all the above circumstances, and ten times more. Then, after all is said and done, it comes down to what you're willing to forgive. If you do forgive her, then it has to be genuine, meaning you can't throw it in her face later on to cause hurt. If you can trust her again (and take your time with this .. trust has to be earned!!!) ...and the situation ever happened again, walk and don't look back.

Answer 3

Well - that truly depends upon your wife and the reasons behind why she cheated in the first place. If it was because you were neglectful with emotions, love, romance, attention and caring, etc and then yes she will probably cheat again especially if you are still not meeting her needs.

However, if you have changed you ways as well as her - there is no reason why you both can't work through this and make the necessary changes that need to be made in order for your relationship to work. But both of you need to be dedicated to making it work and forgiving each other and oneself. What ever you do, don't keep bringing up the past as that will make it harder for both of you to get over and could possibly push her back to cheating again.

Happy Thanksgiving and Good Luck.

God Bless

Answer 4

Well I don't really agree with once a cheater always a cheater but...... she cheated for a reason, either because she is insecure, wanted to get back at you, looking for attention, etc. Until the problem of why she cheated is fixed, she will probably do so again. She cheated because it filled some kind of void in her. Find out why the void was there in the first place and help her fix it. That's your best bet of it not happening again.

Answer 5

The propensity to cheat increased exponentially when she cheated the first time. Anytime we do something once, it's always easier to do it again. WILL she do it again? That depends on the depth of her regret. If you have to ask the question, then you must not have much faith in her ability to change. The truth of things is that if she is perfectly happy with you, there's no reason for her to cheat in the first place, so the two of you need to address what is wrong in your marriage that she felt compelled to stray. If THAT can't be fixed, then this cheating incident isn't likely to be the last.

Answer 6

I WILL DO THE SAME QUESTION TO YOU. IF YOU CHEAT ON HER ONCE ADFNSHE FIND OUT DO YOU DO IT AGAIN? BE IN THE SAME SITUATION AS HER. WHAT SHE DO IS NOT EXCUSE BUT!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well my friend is hard to know, some of them have that as an sport, but other woman's, cheat because there lonely, I just can give you this advice ask her Why just to know, My best friend cheat her husband and he find out she was really sorry they talk but she cheat on him because he pref ere to be with his friend that to go out with her, this happen 7 years ago, he change and she change, they are together and they are really happy she never cheat on him again.

This cheating thing is very delicate, because as I said at the beginning for a lot of woman is a sport but others are 1 time thing, you have to talk to your have ask her what she don't like from your and vice verse,

If you decide to stay with her Forgive and never mention what happen again is Spanish is borron y cuenta nueva thats meen, blotch and counts new.

Is like start in cero again like meting each other be sincere with her trust her, and if both have a good communication after that your mar rage will be for years. If you do not like something tell her you do not recriminate if you forgive her already.

Answer 7

It's a serious question about trust. Once it's been violated, you can never feel completely sure of her allegiance. You may be able to rebuild it over time, but the people who can do that are very intelligent, sensitive and a lot more mature than most folks. It's rare, very rare. Instead, you wind up with two suspicious people, who are contantly on guard for the slightest infraction — which means divorce is not far behind.

Answer 8

I think she can stop, if your relationship is strong and you get on well. A leopard can change their spots.

It really depends on why she cheated on you and whether you can let it go. If you are planning on holding a grudge forever and always casting it up, it would probably drive her to do it again.

However if you are honest about your feelings about this and talk out the whole thing, then you can put it behind you and probably have a better relationship afterwards.

Good luck.

Answer 9

If she has cheated once then it is more likely that she will cheat
again than if she had never cheated...
It is not certain that she will cheat again but statistically her odds
are worse than a woman who has never cheated...

Answer 10

Depends on your wife. are you satisfying her or supplying all her "needs"? a woman usually cheats because there is some need that her mate is not meeting that the other man is.